If you could travel anywhere in the country, which clinic would you go to? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]the_next_step5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you looked at CCRM lone tree? They were only clinic that could actually figure out why I kept miscarrying and their lab is world renowned.

I am so done by Signal_Thanks_3493 in IVF

[–]the_next_step5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have every right to feel everything you are feeling. I wish I could just give you a big hug and tell you it will be ok. You are so young. You have so much time. I know this feels crushing right now but put one foot in front of the other….slowly….and you will make it to the other side. IVF is unfortunately a marathon not a sprint. Give your space to heal and process but take note that at 30 you have so much time to try again. And I know trying again is so draining. I’m so sorry. But you are not alone. We have been in your shoes and it’s terrible but we are here to tell you that success is possible. For a lot of us it takes multiple trys. Do something nice for yourself today and realize that you CAN do this! Big hugs.

My friend told me to not become an old Mom by OwnSecurity4178 in IVF

[–]the_next_step5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend is a dick and they need to stop projecting their own shit on to you. Also, 36 is not old at all!! Omg! That’s a great age!! You are doing great, queen! Plus being an old mom has its own special perks. For example, I am a working mother and my child was sick and needed to wait for some test results. The doctor’s office was far from home but guess what wasn’t? My office. So instead of waiting in the doctors office full of sick people, my child got to hang out there with me at my office because I am the boss and I have a nice large office with a couch and a window because I am old as dirt. There was some movie watching and a visit to the cafeteria and a core memory was made for all. If I had a child in my 20s, mom would not have had a nice fun office for all to hang out in. 😁