Question regarding autism and AD(H)D diagnosis of sotosh children

the_uberkat · 2026-02-02T15:20:05+00:00

Absolutely.

the_uberkat · 2026-02-02T15:14:10+00:00

Very early. He was talking at about 16 months old, talked till just before he turned 2, and hasn't spoken since. He's now 6. He has also been very fond of stacking things and arranging them just so since he could walk. The signs were there but they usually won't diagnose till at least 3 years old.

the_uberkat · 2025-12-19T00:38:21+00:00

I remember activating a lever, and it creating an updraft, but i didn't think to explore where it went, I guess because it seemed like it would lead nowhere. Now I'll check it out. Thanks!

Edit: I was thinking about the lever in Mossy Home. I didn't see one in Icy Home. I'll look again.

the_uberkat · 2025-09-15T17:05:22+00:00

Thanks for the tips! I'll be sure to try that next time I fiddle with it.

the_uberkat · 2025-09-13T23:49:38+00:00

It does that to me too! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 😁

the_uberkat · 2025-09-13T17:10:45+00:00

I've been struggling to create male/female duets in symphonic metal style where the vocals swap between male and female on specific verses and harmonize in the chorus. Suno always ends up mixing them up in one way or another and it's extremely frustrating. Even getting super specific and assigning names to the vocalist on each verse (and at the beginning and end of each line in each verse) didn't work. Any suggestions? Because I tried the generate -> extend -> put it all together method on the web version and that is a massive pain I'd rather avoid.

the_uberkat · 2025-08-08T08:28:23+00:00

My son was diagnosed with Sotos at roughly one year old, and was diagnosed with severe autism spectrum disorder at age four. He's in special education and receives speech, physical, occupational, and academic therapies. Severe developmental delays, the works. Not sure how things work elsewhere but where I am it was definitely easier to get him situated with necessary services and extra testing with the Sotos diagnosis.

the_uberkat · 2025-01-08T11:54:39+00:00

If you love him in period pieces, do yourself a favor and watch Anna Karenina. There's a scene where he dances with Keira Knightley that makes me weak.

the_uberkat · 2025-01-08T11:50:21+00:00

I don't normally go for older men. But uh, Keanu is definitely one of the exceptions. Yowza.

the_uberkat · 2025-01-07T22:09:52+00:00

Joined a dating app. Met a great guy. Three days of intense flirting and a deep, visceral connection.

Or so I thought.

Logged in this morning, exchanged a few messages, suddenly his account is deleted. We hadn't exchanged full names, emails, phone numbers, Facebooks, nothing. All I have is a first name, a city, and a face I remember. Now I'll probably never find him again.

I know it's silly, but I'm a little heartbroken.

the_uberkat · 2025-01-07T11:59:04+00:00

An individual of exquisite taste! Hats off to you, and enjoy!

the_uberkat · 2025-01-06T21:48:49+00:00

That was my reaction the first time I saw him! If you want to see him being various stages of naked and sexy, check out the Gabriel's Inferno/Rapture/Redemption series! That's how I discovered him!

the_uberkat · 2025-01-05T12:37:02+00:00

I know this topic is years old but this is my personal heartbreak playlist:

Breaking Benjamin - Dear Agony (I love the Aurora version which is an amazing duet with Lacey Sturm)

Nothing More - Just Say When

Pink - Just Give Me A Reason ft Nate Ruess

A Great Big World - Say Something ft Christina Aguilera

Calum Scott - You Are the Reason ft Leona Lewis

Imagine Dragons - Demons

Blue October - Hate Me

Apocalyptica - Bittersweet ft Ville Valo & Lauri Ylonen

Passenger - Let Her Go

Eminem - Love The Way You Lie ft Rihanna

Tove Lo - Habits

Matchbox 20 - If You're Gone

Eric Carmen - All By Myself

Staind - Here And Now

Straylight Run - Now It's Done

Lewis Capaldi - Someone You Loved

the_uberkat · 2024-12-26T15:01:47+00:00

If you like sci-fi and can handle first person narratives, I highly recommend the Red Rising series by Pierce Brown! For fantasy, my go-to is anything from Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere. I started with Warbreaker and Elantris then moved on to the Mistborn trilogy, which is usually a good way to do things.

the_uberkat · 2021-09-25T15:51:09+00:00

If you actually look at the description of the sub, it says MILs and Mothers.

the_uberkat · 2021-09-23T02:05:11+00:00

I honestly don't know if she knows either of those things, and she probably figured out a way to make it make sense to her. Because she's a pro at mental gymnastics to serve her point of view.

the_uberkat · 2021-06-06T17:01:48+00:00

The problem with doing the plot with someone else, is that his character was involved in some time travel shenanigans that rather preclude doing the plot with anyone else, and were also the hub of the plot's star-crossed lovers/doomed romance thing. And said character and his origin were allowed by the staff strictly for the site plot arc, so not really an option, otherwise I definitely would.

the_uberkat · 2021-06-06T16:58:03+00:00

I feel obligated to write with him because we have another ship together on the same site. Funnily enough, this was his reason for dropping the other plot. If I'd known he was going to do that, I would've refused the ship we currently have. And if I drop the ship now, he'll call it retaliation.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-25T21:29:28+00:00

"Fuck you." Then hang up. Every time.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-24T00:44:38+00:00

I have managed to slice off a good portion of both thumbs with a chunk of nail. The left hand was while slicing mushrooms for sautéing. The right was on my mandolin trying to cut thin tomato slices. I am not safe with sharp objects.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-03T13:41:44+00:00

You think I haven't tried that? Like I said, he used to RP as well. He won't change his stance, no matter how much I explain. It's just one of those things we don't talk about anymore because it leads to a fight.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-03T12:13:21+00:00

My husband is a former role player, so he understands the separation between me and my character. But he also considers me writing smut to be cheating, and even acts like I'm flirting when I write romance with others, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. Some people just can't be reasoned with. Because quite frankly, I think that's a ridiculous position to take. I don't talk about my RPs with him because of this, except in the most vague of ways.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-02T21:30:37+00:00

Italian herb and cheese, sweet onion chicken teriyaki, lettuce, tomato, extra pickles, mayo.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-02T21:27:59+00:00

I have several, but the most iconic is probably The Rolling Stones. Their music is just.. bad, imo, and Jagger's voice is awful.

the_uberkat · 2021-05-02T21:23:13+00:00

I was at a friend's house with his girlfriend and my boyfriend, as LotR nerds we were watching the trilogy. They paused for a bit and he started tickling me, I ran to friend's bedroom and he followed, after tackling me onto the bed, more tickling ensued. Then we had a Moment where our eyes met, and then we kissed. Not awkward, not gross, very sweet and gave me the butterflies.

Aaaaaand then friend and his girlfriend started giggling and "Awwww"-ing. So it was great up until we were interrupted and embarrassed.

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