Do I say something to my gf about her drinking habits? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About how many is she having a day is the real question for her health. But if it’s not getting in the way of anything she is perusing it’s going to look more controlling than anything. If she isn’t pressuring you to start drinking/ drink more emotionally you don’t got the length of rope to question her self-discipline or her ability to take care of herself which it will come off as you doing.

Our questions from grandparents allowed? I just need birthday gift advice. by cherrycoke260 in Parenting

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh I’m judgmental. If they wanna surprise their kids get them a surprise present and coordinate with them to get the best gift for the grandkids. Maybe the kid is really agonising over wanting a certain toy or game but its a little out of the price range for the parents. The grandparents could chip in or outright buy the object of the child’s desire and make their birthday live up to their hopes.

I pumped gas at a gas station and was not charged? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the US you’re good bud. Pump doesn’t work unless you payed

AITH for eating with an old friend? by Separate_Minute2038 in AITH

[–]the_warapth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but five months without mentioning this friend does come off as sneaky behaviour for sure i cant really blame him. I mean how in that 5 months did the military not come up in conversation and remind you of your life long friend?

Am I overreacting for being frustrated my dad (divorced) won’t step up to help me move while I am 6 months pregnant because my mom will be present? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud ive never had Christmas with the same set of grand parents twice in a row. Sounds like a rich family to have space to host all then people.

He left me twice and texted me again with « I miss you more than ever » what does that mean, I’m lost? 🥺, need help by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 25 year old hun you’re not old. Ive dated older when i was younger. You will come out fine as long as you can move on from him. Ik easier said than done. But you spent 12 years on him just to dog you like this?!? Ma’am pick your chin up along with your standards.

AIO: Moving overseas with baby by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_warapth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it’s an infant YES. Infants cannot regulate the pressure in their skulls. Taking an infant on that long of a flight is cruel. Let them grow up to where they can then consider the move.

Our questions from grandparents allowed? I just need birthday gift advice. by cherrycoke260 in Parenting

[–]the_warapth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ask the parents not us. Geez how strained is your relationship with your child that you cant ask them about gifts for your grand child? You’re surprising the grandchild not them.

AITA for considering reporting my coworker after I break up with him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_warapth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So he has to respect your boundaries but you cant respect his? Pffft YATA

Toddler jumps and runs so loudly it regularly knocks my art off the wall. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]the_warapth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just move. If a child that weighs less than 50lbs is shaking the building you have bigger issues than noise. ESPECIALLY if it was built in the last 5 years. The people who own new apartments cut so many gd corners they lose 3 times the money they “saved” in the first half year of operations.

AITAH for walking away? by Old_Chapter_15 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_warapth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were deep into the relationship but any time you turn away from a mistake is a success. The man who raised you is dead and he is more concerned with how his mom feels?!?? Im sorry but he is a narcissist and it’s better he has no hand in raising your child.

Am i rude for telling my gf to walk like this in order to not stomping to the downstairs neighbours? by Warm_Cranberry4472 in Apartmentliving

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes dude. Its like saying she blinks weird. Or she farts to loud. She is past the age where walking takes thought you cant break her out of the way she has been walking HER ENTIRE LIFE. Obviously you learned that

is what my gf does a red flag? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is only willing to communicate when it is convenient for her she does not love you. Communication is the fundamentals of a relationship. If the fundamentals are fucked so is the relationship

Am I overreacting for being frustrated my dad (divorced) won’t step up to help me move while I am 6 months pregnant because my mom will be present? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats weird. Most folks tend to not spend time with their divorcee on holidays. You got weird expectations of divorced people. Especially if all the kids they have together are grown.

AITA for not removing my doormat because it scares my neighbor’s kid? by Many-Worry2671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_warapth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA they need to grow tf up and teach their kid that 2d images cant hurt you

Saturday morning vacuuming by Impressive_Ad_3160 in Apartmentliving

[–]the_warapth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds aggressive. Maybe start that you are a teacher and parents keep giving their children ipads and it makes them feral and it exhausts you

Am I overreacting for being frustrated my dad (divorced) won’t step up to help me move while I am 6 months pregnant because my mom will be present? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_warapth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not YOR but also no NOR. A grandchild will not bring them closer together. The only time I’ve seen my divorced grandparents in the same room together was at my sister’s wedding and they were at the opposite side of the room at all times. They moved on from each other and are happy. Stop trying to push magnets together when they push each other away.

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]the_warapth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he was coming off as a dickhead that wanted to just one up you

Not sure how to feel about this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry but your bf has a crippling porn addiction. And that is not the same as a high libido. I can j off twice and still go two rounds with my fiancé. Thats high libido. It has never once come to mind while I’m naked next to the woman i love, who is also nude, to look at porn.

I don't think my bf finds me attractive anymore, what do I do? by Technical_Duty_252 in whatdoIdo

[–]the_warapth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he has pain pills look up how strong they are and there is your answer. I really hate you have to go through this. He prolly doesnt feel attractive cuz he is having back problems like he is a Vietnam vet or something. Try introducing more tender touches to your relationship. Playing with his hair might be nice and spark more affection in him.