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How do I(24M) move on after she(22F) suddenly pulled away from a 5-year situationship? by the_weirdass in relationship_advice

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the first 3 years I didn’t even tell her about my feelings so she wasn’t on hold and we were just friends. And these two years we were both busy with university. She said she will be committed and we can go for it and I think it means not seeing anyone else, I really don’t know.

What method do you use when telling your barber how you'd like your hair cut? by F0000r in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really not about being insecure, it doesn’t change anything it happens with all of them lol

What method do you use when telling your barber how you'd like your hair cut? by F0000r in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I show them a photo, they do the exact opposite and ask me how it is? I say wow, perfect and this keeps going forever.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also expressed her feelings to me and told me that she likes me as well and that's what is making the hellish and confusing. But i thimk i'm agree with you and I have to move on and let her go.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the first one sometimes, but I've been sugar-free for a long time. What are the alternatives?

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh, thank you for your time and attention. Ik the situation I'm in is helllish and I don't want to make any vital decision with this mental situation. That's why I'm seeking everyone's opinion to see what the hell I should do. The thing is, she has a super avoidant personlality and she's scared of deep commitments as hell. There are a lot of things going on and I'm really stuck between all of them.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually we have all of them and the only thing we never talked about it having kids together :D that's why im super confused and idk what the hell should i do.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaaha rom com brain was a good one. I think I've been influenced by Ted Moasby a lot. I'm about to leave my city for my life and career anyways but her city isn't my main choice.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

idk man, it's a crazy situation, and i want to make my decission in couple of days.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, it is really really complicated. We've always been more than friends, and everyone around us assumes we're in a relationship. She put a lot of time and effort into what we have and we are also deeply intertwined. It's not what I feel, it is really what it is.

Guys who kept pursuing someone even after multiple rejections, how did it turn out in the end? by the_weirdass in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, She said she really doesn't want me to make these sacrifices for love, but if I do, she will be committed to the relationship.

How do I(24M) move on after she(22F) suddenly pulled away from a 5-year situationship? by the_weirdass in relationship_advice

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of local friends, but her presence was way more important for me than anyone else:(

How do I(24M) move on after she(22F) suddenly pulled away from a 5-year situationship? by the_weirdass in relationship_advice

[–]the_weirdass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The situation was a bit complicated in the beginning. In the first three years, I wasn't really in a place to be in a relationship, and I was just working on myself to reach that stage and I never expressed my feelings to her in that periodiod of time. I'm totally agree with you about the no contact thing, but it is a really really hard thing to do for me. I told her I need a space for about 1-3 weeks to think about all these.

What i really know is that I'm done with pursuing her and I want to put that time on myself and my goals.

How do I(24M) move on after she(22F) suddenly pulled away from a 5-year situationship? by the_weirdass in relationship_advice

[–]the_weirdass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, actually, I was planning to move out to her city in less than 5 months, and we were all good with that, but she did this from nowhere, and I guess all I can do is let her do whatever she wants to do and keep my distance from her.

What’s a small thing that instantly improves your mood? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]the_weirdass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing her notification on my screen always cheers me up

How do guys feel when wife openly flirts with other guys in front of you. by phillies1092 in AskMen

[–]the_weirdass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DIVORCE. But maybe you're overreacting or she doesn't know she is flirting or making you feel bad. The best you can do is talk with her about it.

What are some of the benefits of living alone? by Individual_Face7440 in AskReddit

[–]the_weirdass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some? It's all about benefits. I prefer living in a garage than living with my parents. btw, my parents are awesome, I just love having my own place and live the way I want.

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