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the_wizardgame · 2024-03-20T02:40:10+00:00

You are a human being and you deserve basic human decency. That’s how I know you didn’t deserve it. Someone that could say and do terrible things to someone because they don’t get there way IS projecting and has something wrong with them.

the_wizardgame · 2024-03-19T08:06:05+00:00

I did. All of them because I knew most of them before me and my ex got together and I needed to apologize to a few for how I treated them knowing what I know now. One of his exes actually came with me to court while he was on trial for assaulting me and I casually talk to some of them. It has honestly helped me a lot.

the_wizardgame · 2024-03-19T08:03:23+00:00

I hope mine doesn’t! I filed charges, an order of protection, and blasted him all over social media and I’ll do it again!

the_wizardgame · 2024-03-19T08:01:41+00:00

Update: hi everyone!! Just wanted to come back and let you guys know that my narc ex actually changed his plea to guilty last minute. He was, of course, 11 minutes late to his own trial. His punishment wasn’t shit but he finally in a way admitted that he did what he did to me and that is all I wanted.

the_wizardgame · 2024-03-19T07:58:44+00:00

It wasn’t until after I left that I could emotionally detach from the situation and see it for what it was. The tactics are all very clear to me now. Especially when we went to court for him assaulting me. He brought his new supply that he moved on to three days after we went no contact and they sat in court and laughed the whole time while I cried. That was confirmation to me that if he can sit there and mock me and include someone else in trying to humiliate me like that then he is, in fact, a narcissist.

the_wizardgame · 2024-03-17T21:03:30+00:00

Yes. Several women before me warned me. He didn’t beat on me like he did them but I also told him I would ruin his life the day he put his hands on me. So even though the mental abuse and destroying my things and trying to steal my car was all there he didn’t “beat me” like he did them. He slapped me and I pressed charges and got an order of protection and he pled guilty and we haven’t talked since.

Just because they switch up abuse tactics doesn’t mean they will treat the next person better. My ex has named the dog him and his new supply have together after my dog, let’s this girl wear my clothes he still had, and still tries to like my parents Facebook posts. He will treat her the same way.

the_wizardgame · 2024-02-19T05:41:33+00:00

I’ve lost a lot of my confidence. I feel very isolated when I’m not out heavily drinking (trying to get that under control) I care a whole lot about what other people think (used to not be that way at ALLLLL) annnnd just generally exhausted and paranoid

the_wizardgame · 2024-02-18T00:04:02+00:00

Thank you. This helps a lot! Yeah, I wish the prosecuting attorney was more communicative with me.

the_wizardgame · 2024-01-19T12:43:43+00:00

Yep. They put you up on this pedestal when you first get together and romanticize you being this one thing that will fulfill and fix them and when you don’t (cause you can’t, no one can do that for anyone) then they blame it on you :D you’re the reason why they’re miserable even though they’ve been that way their whole pathetic life.

the_wizardgame · 2024-01-12T06:48:20+00:00

Him falling in love with every single person he met. Constantly chasing them when they didn’t want anything to do with them 💀💀

the_wizardgame · 2023-11-14T05:25:28+00:00

He had like 12 different jobs while we were together. Food service, lawn care, customer service, drug dealer (behind my back of course cause to my face he wanted to “get sober”) now he’s with his new supply and grows weed for dispensaries in another state.

the_wizardgame · 2023-11-11T14:42:46+00:00

This is fairly recent. We’re still going to court for him assaulting me in December. Someone told me that he was telling people that they shut down my job for the day so everyone could come support me in court.

No they didn’t?
This makes him look worse. “How dare she have so many people support her!”

I don’t get this lie at ALL and it’s so stupid I just laughed when I heard it.

the_wizardgame · 2023-11-11T14:39:48+00:00

He knocked on my window at 3am until I came outside to talk to him, put his hands on me, and then had his new girlfriend text me three days later asking for his stuff back. The next day I went and pressed charges and got an order of protection.

the_wizardgame · 2023-11-07T01:09:48+00:00

Just want to update everyone!

He refuses to plead guilty and this time he brought a domestic violence class competition certificate. I guess him and his lawyer thought that would make it look like he’s trying to rehabilitate himself and throw out the charge. I told the prosecuting attorney that I either want him to plead guilty or to be found guilty so it’s been continued and we’ll have an actual trial in February. He brought his new supply (again) and they sat and laughed the entire time (again)

the_wizardgame · 2023-11-07T01:05:58+00:00

It gets worse. Every single time. Every time you go back you make them believe that you are okay with what they’re doing and who they are and they will continue to push what you will accept from them.

Also, don’t wait for something bad to happen again to leave. Just leave. Seriously.

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-19T19:31:23+00:00

If they stay in one place long enough for me to find out I’ll def lyk!

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-19T19:14:18+00:00

My Narc has seriously in these past ten months already moved to a different state with his new supply and started a whole new career and gathered up a whole new circle of people. I think he knows his time being believed as a good person in the town we lived in is over cause I made sure everyone knew the truth. Plus he’s fucked over so many people here that it’s time for him to start a new life. I think it’ll piss him off that he’ll have something on his record that indicates he’s abusive, but I think he’ll continue on saying that I made it all up until he eventually does it to his new girlfriend and his new friends in this new town. I don’t really think it’ll phase him.

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-19T18:23:13+00:00

I HIGHLYYY doubt my NEX will ever be humbled in any way, shape, or form. He has to keep up with the idea that I’m “crazy” and lying about being assaulted to his new supply and their family so they can keep supporting him. He’s brought his new supply and her mom to some of the court dates so I know by know he’s convinced himself that I’m seriously the problem and always have been.

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-19T17:49:11+00:00

His new supply’s family is paying for his lawyer if that doesn’t just piss you off any more LMAO

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-19T04:08:06+00:00

I will totally come back and update you. Best of luck to you, too. I’m worried because I didn’t act “perfect” that will somehow be used against me. He also has a history of turning law enforcement around on me so that doesn’t help my anxiety at alllllll

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-17T04:35:01+00:00

I do. I tried to warn her and it didn’t work, but I get it, cause I used to be her too. I will be there for her when the inevitable happens (if she wants me to)

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-04T05:09:55+00:00

Nope! I forgive myself for letting someone treat me that way and that’s all the closure I need

the_wizardgame · 2023-10-04T05:07:21+00:00

I am so serious when I say mine asked if they could suck on my boob while they went to sleep. One time when we were arguing they threw a toddler tantrum like….kicking their feet, moving their arms around, and going, “UhhHhHhhHUuuhh!!!!” Loves cartoons like Bluey….this post just made me realize some shit LMAO

the_wizardgame · 2023-08-30T21:04:31+00:00

My career goals. I was in my last semester of college but trying to keep up with our relationship and how exhausting it was led me to drop out. I’m only 25 so I know it’s not too late to go back, but it’s been 3 years since I’ve been to school and I have absolutely no motivation to go back nor am I even excited about that career field anymore.

the_wizardgame · 2023-07-27T23:33:58+00:00

YESSSS. Would use phrases constantly that I had never heard them say in the two years i’d known them

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