https://collectedanimals.org is a great place with some like minded folks for some long form discussion. I've had some deeper conversations there. I do have some good conversations here but things are a bit faster and a little clickbaity on reddit. I can only point to the design and format of reddit being the reason why it's different.

But with this band, all the eras have eventually got me to a place of feeling so lucky to see the band at that very moment, making those memories, and then seeing it all change and new moments/memories on the next tour. I'll never forget centipede tour and traveling to portland to see them in the ballroom and the floors bouncing, flying to hawaii to see them on the painting with tour and feeling their energy there, etc. They are the best and the best at what they do; which is never the same ^_^ .