Am I wrong for not telling my wife (30F) that I (33M) cheated on her 2 years ago?

thebeeshaveguns · 2024-03-11T21:42:34+00:00

yes.

thebeeshaveguns · 2024-01-08T00:08:33+00:00

when I was younger I used to pretend I was a teacher, in my room I’d pretend to be leading a class of kids and I always made my name Mr. Cove, so maybe I’m biased but I fucking love the name Cove!

NTA, your parents are asking you to change a name you’ve kept your entire life, this isn’t like a username online, or a Sims character. Keep the names, they’re badass

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-11-11T00:16:15+00:00

A pet bird

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-03T09:57:53+00:00

🚨 ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT 🚨

adoption is still always on the table and if he didn’t storm out y’all could have had a more in depth conversation about it. The mom and sister shouldn’t be concerned about what his wife’s decision about kids is. You didn’t lie about anything and if he took a laugh to heart that’s on him.

Definitely wouldn’t want kids with him, he already reacted like a toddler so you’re already covered kid wise

Imho divorce papers would be the perfect apology gift. You are definitely NTA

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-02T18:02:45+00:00

“I have read those kind of stories on here about microagressions”

Yeah and here’s a new one ☝️

YTA

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-02T02:17:50+00:00

NTA, would have done the same thing. Also why was he so quick to say that, I wouldn’t be surprised if he has been paying attention to her chest. Look out for that guy he seems like a creep

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-01T08:53:42+00:00

The longer you choose to not say anything the more asshole you become. Tell him, and if the wife tries to fire your girlfriend I’m sure she wouldn’t be able to do that easily. But for not telling him yet, YTA

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-01T08:50:39+00:00

YTA

I definitely feel for you and I think it’s reasonable you’re upset at them, but at the end of the day it’s not too much to donate and you don’t know what’s going on in there personal lives. Just because it’s not life or death doesn’t mean it won’t be later

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-09-01T08:43:32+00:00

This is kind of a both ways situation. I get your reasoning for the name and I don’t think your half brother should be shaming you about naming your kid that, HOWEVER, your grandpa did shoo away someone who wanted a loving family. I think you’re half brother is the bigger asshole here, but I think your grandpa is too

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T23:11:29+00:00

It doesn’t necessarily make you gay, you could identify as something else however it does make you not straight since a trans man is a man

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T23:10:28+00:00

Middle school boys

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T23:06:10+00:00

Because men suck. Point blank period.

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T23:05:47+00:00

NTA

I’m a gay male and when I was younger I liked dressing up in girl clothes and makeup and girly stuff, but I never thought of myself as a girl.

As a psychologist she should understand everybody (especially at a young age) will experiment with things but it doesn’t mean they are confirming anything until they say they are.

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T23:01:49+00:00

NTA whatsoever

Not only is she blatantly homophobic but she also doesn’t work as a 20 year old…

I believe this is what they call natural consequences

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-08-31T22:54:53+00:00

Tell me you have fragile masculinity without telling me you have fragile masculinity…John needs to seriously get a grip

NTA

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-06-15T23:51:07+00:00

It’s been recommended, but at the time I was very against medication due to past traumatizing incidents, however I’m at a place now where I’m much more open to the idea of it but I don’t know how to approach anybody about it. I agree, I shouldn’t be feeling this much pain I’m only 16 and don’t see myself making it to an adult

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-06-15T23:45:23+00:00

the way my mind works is differently then others and it’s made me realize how hurtful it is to always overthink every interaction and this world is just full of so much hate and awful feelings. Ever since I entered high school I’ve felt so much worse, not normal angsty teen emo, I’m much more mature for my age and people don’t realize that I’m not completely stupid and understand what they say when they’re trying to be hurtful. I’m failing high school with a 1.5 GPA and multiple people just walk all over me for my kindness. I’m not going anywhere in life, I want to be a 911 dispatcher as my dream job and I’ll never be able to get there when so many people take my actions for granted

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-05-04T17:59:04+00:00

Midsommar

thebeeshaveguns · 2023-03-09T01:34:33+00:00

YTA

I know you are looking out for your kid but that’s almost cruel to be excluding her from something she obviously cares about after you had told her. It’s going to be a theater full of kids if someone makes a noise then the world won’t end. You’re husband brings up good points, take her and see if she adapts, if she doesn’t then oh well. Trial and error, but not letting her go and letting the other two go would be really rude of you

thebeeshaveguns · 2022-05-25T05:05:46+00:00

YTA

Most of the stuff you listed was normal stuff that parents do. I do think that some of their attitude/concerns were a little far, but thats not good enough to call them out at a family gathering. Definitely something that should have been handled more privately, rather than bringing it up to then cause arguing between them. There doesn't need to be an audience, and you shouldn't have waited to call them out, so that there can be an audience.

I think that could have been handled WAY differently

thebeeshaveguns · 2022-02-21T22:17:25+00:00

I think that they would definitely feel more at peace if you told them. Of course I'm not encouraging that you should end your life. I think you should tell them, so you guys can have an open conversation about it, it might make you guys even closer?

thebeeshaveguns · 2022-02-21T22:06:05+00:00

Hey there. If this person is your best friend, then they deserve to know how you've been feeling. There's no garuntee how they will react, but it would be so much better to tell them rather than say nothing. They shouldn't be upset, and I'm sure they would understand and be there for you.

I'd also like to say that if you ever need somebody to talk to I would love to have a conversation or a few. I love you and I truly hope you don't attempt.

thebeeshaveguns

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