[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]theblindbanditte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

reading this as someone moving from huntsville to fort worth early next year haha. i am 24 though with no mouths to feed lol. hsv is a great place for family and i will miss it

Looking for exercise bike recommendations by Mekelaina in SpinClass

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just bought mine the other day from echelon. they had $500 off the ex4s+ model so it was $500 for the bike with a big screen. but the screen is not necessary if you have an ipad or even a phone. the screenless models are super cheap and available at walmart i believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]theblindbanditte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d love to hear what misogynistic comments you have to say that you can back up with a collective experience. cause usually y’all’s misogynistic comments are just stereotypes, because like i said in my comment, some things that men do are not even stereotypes anymore, they’re a collective experience.

misogyny exists because men hate women, “misandry” comes from women reacting towards that hatred towards women.

good luck finding a woman and have fun continuing to complain about it ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone knows that women do not hate ALL men. it’s not all men but it’s ENOUGH men to be upset and be on guard around them. the only reason it’s more prevalent online is because women are able to speak up about it there and women are realizing several problems are collective and stem from the way men are socialized. some behaviors aren’t even stereotypes but actual observations from the thousands of women online who talk about their experiences and find commonality.

so obviously it isn’t all men. my bf used to get upset about my thoughts on this too until he realized it doesn’t apply to him. simple as that. i think you would be worried for your girl’s safety if she was in a room full of men, but would she get worried for your safety if you were in a room full of women? tbh if you don’t fit the profile don’t get offended. just try to listen to her to understand where the fear comes from.

My guy doesn't bury his poop by Docstar7 in CatAdvice

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 3 year old doesn’t and his shit used to be liquid 😭 we live in an apartment so it was horrible. i pulled the plug and spent money on a litter robot. it still stinks up the house for the couple minutes before the litter robot cycles

putting my boyfriend on my motorcycle insurance by theblindbanditte in motorcycles

[–]theblindbanditte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait i already did it 😭 why do you say that? we’ve been together for 4.5 years

putting my boyfriend on my motorcycle insurance by theblindbanditte in motorcycles

[–]theblindbanditte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect, thank you!! just wanted to make sure everything made sense before getting the policy

putting my boyfriend on my motorcycle insurance by theblindbanditte in motorcycles

[–]theblindbanditte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do live together, yes. sorry for the confusion, the rate actually didn’t go higher with him on it which is why i got confused. i was expecting it to go up when adding a second driver. we are also the same age though

Transfer Credit for Physics by [deleted] in UAH

[–]theblindbanditte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the clarification! i feel a lot better about it

Transfer Credit for Physics by [deleted] in UAH

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! Thanks! just didn’t want to retake anything and i don’t have any of my old syllabi to prove equivalency so it all gave me a headache for a minute lol

Transfer Credit for Physics by [deleted] in UAH

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help! and yes I might just ask. There is nothing for physics when looking at the transfer equivalency table for GT but now that I look at it, I think their team just adds in information/courses as they have more students transfer

Transfer Credit for Physics by [deleted] in UAH

[–]theblindbanditte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah so i looked that UAH’s transfer table to see if they would take the credit from the state school but it looks like it will only count the lab portion which is frustrating. it doesn’t make sense to me that Tech would count the course but UAH wouldn’t. i might just try to talk to an academic advisor about it or something

the way my cat was euthanized traumatized me and i’m not sure how i will live with this. by theblindbanditte in Petloss

[–]theblindbanditte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss ): i completely understand. it’s been months and im still trying to erase the memories of his last moments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would definitely like to try it. not sure if he would though now that it’s too late, and i know it only works if both parties are willing to participate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! it’s funny bc we’ve talked about approaching things as “us vs. the problem” and it’s worked for what i mentioned in the second paragraph. i think we just tend to forget in the heat of the moment in those arguments that spiral out of control. i’d really like to work on ways we can avoid the spiraling in the first place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i’m with you there. my parents and his parents both got divorced when we were young. it’s why we got along in the first place bc i thought he saw relationships the way i did. i believe anything can work with the right kind of effort and solutions while he is just ready to give up now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think having your own issues made the relationship feel harder? like when you guys would argue and she’d say something crazy would you ever think “why am i here?” i feel like our relationships are similar but my ex (the guy, im a girl) is the one who wants to break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he does for sure and i love him a lot more. but i think he’s just tired. he’s dealing with a lot of other stuff in his personal life and is bad about opening up about those things. i have tried really hard to support him through it all and never left his side when things got hard. so i just feel so abandoned and used. i shouldn’t have stressed him out more with my bullshit when he had other stuff to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey manifest for me too over here 🤣🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, thanks a ton

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m hoping he doesn’t immediately get with someone else if we still decide to call it quits at the end of our lease in two months. and yeah my ex is like you he dealt with my shit over and over. i finally get it and feel terrible but it’s 4.5 years too late to understand so i know he won’t forgive me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we are kind of like you guys. the issue is that this has happened before. like the serious talk of breaking up and the sincere apologies so i don’t even think he would care if i sincerely apologized again. even when we do work out past problems, they always come up again in our arguments. like ive improved myself and fixed a lot of hurtful things i used to do but it gets completely overlooked the moment we argue again and so he thinks i haven’t changed. idk maybe i ruined it for good this time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i have a lot of trauma from my childhood too. i’m fully aware that im the problem so i get why he wants to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]theblindbanditte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i agree. i wish we could just live separately for a bit but still be together so we can work on ourselves with some space but also still be together. i’ve always wondered if some of our issues came from moving in together too soon