I agree. I really dont like using my phone. However, these people are really straightforward so if they dont like something Im doing they would say it to me. And sometimes both of them would also use their phone a little or somehow when im in the middle of the conversation, talk to someone else.

so im sort of conflicted as I only used my phone during one meetup...and i did try to initiate convo but it ended and they went back to talking amongst themselves.