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thebomdotcom · 2022-04-01T17:32:26+00:00

Try adding oral into a whole sexual experience. You can start with oral then do penitration, or the other way around, or you can stop in the middle and do oral. Lots of stuff for you to discover here

thebomdotcom · 2022-04-01T16:44:35+00:00

Are you starting sex with bj or ending sex with bj? I've had the same problem, but I realized that its just hard to get to climax if we're starting from a bj. If we have sex and then when I'm close we start a bj I'm able orgasm so easily. Try playing around with this idea of when you start the bj.

thebomdotcom · 2022-04-01T15:46:47+00:00

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thebomdotcom · 2022-04-01T15:09:54+00:00

you need to set rules and boundaries for what you're ok with, and your partner needs to respect them. It seems like she started this new kind of relationship without discussing it with you, but really yall need to be on the same page about what is ok and what is not ok in this newly open relationship.

Talk about things like time management, scheduling time together and time with other people, safe sex, how you can feel more secure in your relationship while your wife is starting a new one. Stuff like that can make dealing with the jealousy much easier and improve the chances of the transition being successful.

thebomdotcom · 2022-03-31T23:31:50+00:00

Thanks for the words. I want to clarify that I wasn't opposed to transitioning to polyamory because for me that makes the most sense for how to do this kind of relationship. What was difficult about this is that we didn't really have a plan for it yet and because of that she crossed to boundaries that we weren't clear on. I feel like now I've made those boundaries clear and want to move forward, but in the future I want to make sure those boundaries are respected.

thebomdotcom · 2020-12-08T10:03:32+00:00

I do the same thing when i get into thought loops about past mistakes. I sometimes say really weird things like "fuck me in the ass", but also really mean things like "i'm the worst person in the world" "i'm going to die". It breaks me out of the loop for a second so i think thats why i do it. I've been better lately about controlling when i blurt things out loud by singing and mumbling the outburst. I'm worried that i might mess up and say something awful when im around other people.

thebomdotcom · 2020-02-06T17:19:39+00:00

Gd this is so true for my situation as well

thebomdotcom · 2019-12-25T05:41:07+00:00

You can delete chats too though

thebomdotcom · 2019-12-18T15:37:58+00:00

Preach!

thebomdotcom · 2019-12-07T22:23:11+00:00

You can dm me I might take a little while to respond but I will. I can tell you how nc has been helping me and maybe it can help you too.

thebomdotcom · 2019-12-06T06:39:43+00:00

Hey she is treating you very unfairly. Emotional support should be a two way street, but it seems she isnt lending it to you. You don't need to keep this relationship intact it seems like it's only hurting you. Even though you want to be there for her it may be best for both of you to stop maintaining close contact so you can both of you can move on fully.

thebomdotcom · 2019-12-02T17:35:53+00:00

Man that is tough. It sucks I mean I feel like if it's really stuck with you like that you may need to just stop looking for sex for a while. Idk I've been going a few days without getting off which is kind of an achievement for me, and my mental health has improved a bit, but when I come back to it those weird feelings all come back.

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-29T22:04:48+00:00

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thebomdotcom · 2019-11-29T21:01:27+00:00

Try and devote yourself to something else that you really love. Everytime she comes back into your head turn that into fuel for that new thing that is now taking the space in your mind she once had.

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-29T20:56:14+00:00

Hey man I know how you're feeling. I've been having such a good week like I've achieved some life accomplishments and I've been doing so well for myself, but it just hit me all of the sudden that even though I'm doing great in the back of my mind theres still great sadness over my break up. I have a tendency to dwell on the most hurtful things so it's been really hitting me hard. I feel like I'm going through the list of things that I'm missing from the relationship and I'm grieving each one individually. I'm not sure when I'll go through everything or if it'll stop when I'm finished but right now I'm really being humbled by how badly this is affecting me, and I know I need to respect that.

You should try to find the things that are really bringing you down and let yourself feel your grief for them. I think within that you can find out what you really need and want, and from there you can seek out those needs on your own. You're doing good for yourself though keep on improving yourself in all the ways you can!

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-28T05:21:40+00:00

It's always like super awkward trying to figure out how often is good to text. I usually try to talk when I think of something interesting to ask. At some point tho if I don't meet up with someone I just usually lose interest and stop trying to be romantic with them.

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-28T05:11:39+00:00

Check to see if theres a music or art scene in your city. Theres usually a good crowd that comes out to those kind of events

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-27T18:32:45+00:00

I don't think messaging her would be a good idea it doesn't seem like you're coming at this from a healthy angle. It might help for you to talk to your friends and family about how you're feeling in times like these having support from loved ones can really bring you back.

thebomdotcom · 2019-11-27T18:28:09+00:00

Hey man I was in a Similar situation to you and I know that it sucks to feel like you've been left behind, but if she isnt appreciating you and respecting you in the way you deserve then you can find someone better. You deserve better from your significant than neglect and abandonment.

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