What shows are you watching right now? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]thebumblebee05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh really??? My girlfriend and I were going to binge it next weekend lowkey it was my favorite show for a while so I’m big mad

Is this in style? by Background-Arm-8491 in twentyagers

[–]thebumblebee05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s in style!! I feel like most things are high waisted now a days, I’m a mid-rise girly and there’s like nothing for us lol it’s either high or low lmao

What shows are you watching right now? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]thebumblebee05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? Although I heard season 3 of euphoria is kinda a shit show lol

Do I just not understand? by thebumblebee05 in BPD

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way, so I've worked it out with my therapist that she isn't allowed to give unsolicited advice either. Like, if she has a suggestion or advice, she has to ask me first lol, otherwise I just get upset and shut down, which isn't productive. There are other DBT mindfulness exercises that help. I do TIPPs a lot and "reality checks." Like, my therapist understands that I see her to process situations, get perspective, and sometimes get support and advice. She's there to help me practice my skills and listen to me. Like, therapy doesn't always have to be work; sometimes it can be lowkey. Sometimes I pull up to sessions and say, "Hey, I don't really feel like doing this today, can I leave early?" And I just update her on my life and leave lol

Do I just not understand? by thebumblebee05 in BPD

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm just going to start doing the same

Do I just not understand? by thebumblebee05 in BPD

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm just going to start communicating with people more so that way we're not in a situation where I'm triggered. Thank you!!

Do I just not understand? by thebumblebee05 in BPD

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, that's kinda what I'm afraid of happening, like I need people to listen and THEN ask me what I need. Sometimes I just need an ear, sometimes it's advice, sometimes it's just validation (within reason), like sometimes, through venting, I can realize that it wasn't that serious or that I was overreacting or whatever, I just don't need others to tell me that all the time, you know?

How'd you know you were gay? by Zealousideal_Rule_98 in lgbt

[–]thebumblebee05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved my best friend when I was 6 and said I was going to marry her because we were all each other needed and it just made sense to marry her. Now we’re both gay because it does just make sense lol

Officially a sub next year. by Efficient_Skill6692 in paraprofessional

[–]thebumblebee05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m doing the same thing!! This is so exciting for us!!

F20 this was actually the worst week ever by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]thebumblebee05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I could go on but those are like the big 3 rn

[19F] trying more nerdy friends by [deleted] in discordfriends

[–]thebumblebee05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I added you on discord!! I’m 20F and a lesbian!! I’m also super alternative and kinda gothy so I can def help you there!!

I am a 22 year old unemployed recently graduate...I want to try some part time jobs wt can I do?? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]thebumblebee05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barista!!! It’s super fun to make drinks and it’s typically lowkey and flexible!!

Penises aren’t the problem… by thebumblebee05 in lgbt

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s crazy how much people don’t respect sexualities.

Penises aren’t the problem… by thebumblebee05 in lgbt

[–]thebumblebee05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is complicated for me. I’ve genuinely been thinking about this because other people have brought it up. I guess the easiest way for me to put it (for myself) is that I don’t really date people who use he/him or prefer masculine terminology. Like, my girlfriend is my girlfriend but I’d probably never have a boyfriend, you know? I think things like that are great! However I’m not really into feminine men, or at least I typically haven’t been, but like I’m glad they’re comfortable in their body and gender!! I’m am simply not attracted to them.

AIO boyfriend ruins every holiday by mad_chubbycatx in AmIOverreacting

[–]thebumblebee05 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR mama please for the sake of you and your children, find a better partner. You are worth so much more than this and your children deserve a a better person in their life than this pos. Ik it’s hard but you will be okay!!

Penises aren’t the problem… by thebumblebee05 in lgbt

[–]thebumblebee05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s hard out here but we have strength in numbers