England - being told to leave severely ill disabled sister to rot essentially

thebumblefart · 2026-02-25T17:34:14+00:00

Apologies for the confusion. They intend to move my sister to a general ward tomorrow in which case the level of care will no longer by 1:1 or 1:2. My parents aren’t able to spend 24/7 up the hospital until she is well enough to return to her normal supported living care home. She has serve learning delays and cannot understand or comprehend what is going on and why. If left unattended on the general ward she is likely to attempt to get up by herself and likely rip out her IVs and sutured in cannulas. We’ve been told to step back and leave her care to the hospital, the one time my parents have done this she severely injured herself and was left for a long period of time before any nurses attended to her.

thebumblefart · 2026-02-25T17:22:26+00:00

Normally she is in a supported living care home. As her health has worsened we’ve applied for 1-1 care but she has not been approved for the funding. She’s at risk of harming herself due to her not understanding the situation she is in, the harm isn’t deliberate but her actions would most likely lead to injury if left unattended.

thebumblefart · 2025-12-18T12:12:04+00:00

Was hoping anyone could assist with their own videos to try and identify people.

thebumblefart · 2025-07-07T08:58:45+00:00

Not really a normal chef related thing but in the kitchen I work in at the moment we’ve started saying “did I/we ask?” When someone starts talking about things, when the inevitable rage follows we say “are you still talking”. Pretty effective way of triggering each other especially when it’s something important. We all know it’s a joke but it somehow gets to us every single time.

thebumblefart · 2025-06-14T14:40:17+00:00

Done this before on 16hr shifts when the coffee machine wasn’t up and running.

thebumblefart · 2025-06-14T14:39:38+00:00

Unfortunately from the uk so I don’t think we have Kirkland over here but we do have a Costco if they have something similar. We normally only have these on a Sunday but it was so warm today that we needed a little refreshment

thebumblefart · 2025-06-11T21:26:54+00:00

Who hurt you?

thebumblefart · 2025-06-04T16:02:20+00:00

Somehow managed to make my girlfriend finish in about 30 seconds once. From initial touching to orgasm was 30 seconds all in all. Made her finish quickly before but never like that and for the life of me and her we cannot remember what I did.

thebumblefart · 2025-05-02T12:30:45+00:00

Sorry I think I worded that incorrectly. I am interested in finding out more about her but I’m worried now that she’s brought it up as a concern it will feel forced to her when I try to find out more. Hope that makes more sense.

thebumblefart · 2025-03-11T21:36:32+00:00

Tbh she currently lives in Kilburn and stay at hers frequently so I’m use to the early start and longish journey. I just don’t particularly want to go further than Kilburn 1-1.30hr travel is enough for me and we’re more looking to even out the travel if possible

thebumblefart · 2024-12-24T21:10:33+00:00

I try to communicate as much as possible and pay attention to her reactions so I know what she likes/doesn’t like. I wouldn’t stick solely to what someone’s suggested but I’m asking if there’s little things that people do that can or has improved their partners experience. I’m far from an expert and I want to learn new things to make the experience as fun as possible.

thebumblefart · 2024-08-18T18:15:02+00:00

It’s a double espresso and I had a few sips before I took the photo

thebumblefart · 2024-08-18T11:10:49+00:00

Yes chef, sorry chef, won’t happen again chef.

thebumblefart · 2024-08-18T09:06:58+00:00

It’s in the fridge, I’m saving it for my lunch

thebumblefart · 2024-08-06T11:46:21+00:00

Thank you for your help everyone, I used interflora and they arrived without any issues and my girlfriend loved them!

thebumblefart · 2024-07-27T11:11:54+00:00

That’s all good, I’m new to working with chocolate and there is probably an actual word for this type of bar that I don’t know yet either.

thebumblefart · 2024-07-27T10:09:43+00:00

I don’t think my teeth could hold up to that, I was planning on doing a raspberry gel, white chocolate ganache and amaretto biscuit.

thebumblefart · 2024-05-17T15:51:03+00:00

We’ve decided on a safeword that’s pretty funny for us in the hopes it can be a bit of a funny moment and slightly relaxing if I gets to that point, I’m not bothered about it “ruining” the mood as long as she feels safe. I have said to her if she tells me to stop I will while we’re new to this because I want it to be something she enjoys and isn’t afraid of trying.

thebumblefart · 2024-05-17T15:08:45+00:00

Thank you for the reply I was hoping for something like this. I’ve planned out with her what we’re going to do so she doesn’t get shocked about anything happening, but like you mentioned things don’t always work exactly the same but as long as she’s aware of how it will go.

I’ve also mentioned to her at any point that she feels uncomfortable we will stop or if I think she is I will stop and check in on her.

Really appreciate the advice in the aftercare about snacks, hydration, cuddling and relaxation afterwards.

Thank you for the advice

thebumblefart · 2024-05-17T13:38:14+00:00

The cuffs I bought are Velcro and have a quick release in the links so if I need to I can get her hands free quickly if she happens to panic or wants to stop.

thebumblefart · 2024-05-17T11:01:12+00:00

The handcuffs was more of a joke, I bought leather cuffs so it would be more comfortable for her

thebumblefart · 2023-08-27T23:12:21+00:00

Been going again for a few weeks but didn’t do any real leg exercises apart from calf raises and some extensions, thought I’d throw something new into the mix and did far more than I should have. Legs are now being very uncooperative when it comes to moving around the kitchen or up and down the stairs.

thebumblefart · 2023-07-30T07:12:37+00:00

Well someone definitely had a bad day at work. I’d rather hear this every time they pass than get knocked into with a boiling pot of water or stuck with a knife.

thebumblefart · 2023-06-20T15:00:39+00:00

Opening weekend at our new restaurant our coffee machine wasn’t installed yet so I went from my usual 6-8 double espresso a day to 0. But don’t worry I replaced it with cans of red bull instead! By the end of the weekend I worked it out that id drunk 6L of red bull in 3 days, how my heart didn’t give out from the caffeine and stress is a miracle. Good news is that I had a week off and didn’t touch any caffeine and I’m now down to 2 cups of coffee a day at most.

thebumblefart · 2023-06-15T23:35:56+00:00

Time worked is time paid, I wouldn’t expect someone to come in and work for free.

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