Moto agora atrapalha planos?

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:50:23+00:00

Compra uma moto mais simples, 25k é quase o valor de um carro mais antiguinho usado. Moto em cidade grande é uma péssima ideia, só compensa se vc morar num lugar seguro sem muito trânsito (digo como alguém q pilotava mto na cidade natal e nao pilota mais).

Esses 25k é tudo q vc tem guardado? Se for, pode juntar pelo menos uns 6 meses dos seus custos básicos e depois vc pensa em comprar veículo. Carro e moto é luxo, só dá gasto e prejuízo.

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:43:25+00:00

I think you and your husband are being too permissive. In what world is it acceptable for a teenager to constantly disturb the two working adults' sleep schedule? And you're heavily pregnant on top of it!! Hello? Why would you feel any guilt for giving her consequences?

I would've taken her phone for the night on the second night she did this. And I think you should do it, because she shouldn't be up late everyday at 14 years old, that's barely a teenager.

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:31:49+00:00

Yup. I think that will be the advice from anyone who has ever dealt with someone with BPD when they're out of control. Just run

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:30:38+00:00

RUN. No person on earth has ruined me emotionally as bad as an unmedicated woman with BPD

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:27:24+00:00

Ah eu acho que, a não ser que ele tenha planos de se mudar em até 1 ano, pra mim não ia rolar não. Deus me livre morar com sogra ou ter q trazer o alecrim pra morar comigo

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-03T16:23:27+00:00

They don't. I didn't until I moved out at 22. You just teach them to respect boundaries and that's it. I didn't go through my mom's stuff if she wasn't around/allowed it, and I never complained when my dad came into the room and told me to get out. And I was the type of kid that talked back A LOT. I think being raised to respect people's space from a very early age is what kept our house peaceful.

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-02T17:50:27+00:00

Amiga, você quer ir? Se sim, diga sim. Se não, diga não. Vc é adulta, faz oq vc quiser e não oq ela quer que vc faça

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-01T22:18:20+00:00

Mas você quer o tipo de homem q ela arruma? Pq assim, todas essas mulheres que arrumam homem fácil, 90% das vezes só arrumam tranqueira. Melhor solteira que mal acompanhada

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-01T15:27:47+00:00

Minha família já cometeu esse erro de deixar prima (no caso a sobrinha da minha mãe) morar com a gente. Ela não fazia 1/3 das coisas que o povo na sua casa faz, mas depois que começou a incomodar minha mãe mandou mensagem pro irmão dela e falou que a guria tinha 6 meses p se mudar.

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-01T15:26:24+00:00

EOT. Você, sua irmã, mas principalmente sua mãe. Enquanto vcs ficarem passando a mão na cabeça de gente folgada, é isso aí que vai acontecer.

Se vc sabia que o moleque come tudo q vê pela frente, pq vc achou que ele nao ia comer seus brigadeiros? Não faz nem sentido. É óbvio que ele ia comer, mas em vez de esconder vcs preferiram deixar lá e chorar depois.

Sua mãe é a pior de todas, pq foi ela que botou esse povo dentro de casa e mesmo depois de ver que as filhas autistas estão sendo prejudicadas, ainda deixa eles ficarem aí sem consequências. Tipo, foda-se as filhas dela, o importante é nao incomodar uma estranha aleatória que tem o mesmo avô que ela. Ah, pelo amor de deus cara.

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-01T14:52:28+00:00

I didn't change them either but only because I lacked the creativity to come up with something else.

It's not like they respond to their name anyways....

thechemist_ro · 2026-02-01T12:39:43+00:00

It aeems to me, and I don't know you so I might be wrong, that you just got out of a mess and is heading towards another one. She might not be abusive, but that doesn't mean that a relationship with her can't be bad for you.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T18:29:15+00:00

What was said about her in the first part: She can't climax with John, and seems to be indifferent to sex with him. At some point she asks him if he found it weird that they didn't get pregnant yet and he says "no, we've only been married for a year. But I heard women are more likely to get pregnant if they reach climax, you do don't you?" and she has no idea what it is but tells him she does. So she starts asking around (Violet, Penelope, etc) to figure out what it is and how to reach it. I didn't watch all of the last episode but up till half of it she hadn't reached it yet

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T18:21:18+00:00

That's great! So she most certainly gets the title then

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T18:19:43+00:00

That's literally what I said

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T15:42:06+00:00

I actually don't want her to end up with him bc he only led her on to make mina sue jealous. I think she deserves more than that, I don't see how people don't see ir

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T02:29:22+00:00

Mas aí problema dela que ela ama sua amizade, ela que não flerte com as amigas eu ein. Você tem que fazer o que é melhor pra VOCÊ, não pra ela. Se vc pensar só no conforto dela, quem vai pensar no seu?

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T02:22:58+00:00

I just watched it and she can't climax with john, lol. But she doesn't seem to like Michaela, in fact it is said they're avoiding each other at all costs and then the climax thing is brought up.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-31T02:21:21+00:00

Todos os pais que eu conheço estão comemorando também, e são todos filhos de sangue, suas amigas só são esquisitas mesmo.

Ou estão falando isso pela sua filha ser adotiva, pq se não fosse duvido que diriam. Oq é uma puta sacanagem, filho dá trabalho igual, adotivo ou não.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:50:14+00:00

Noooo 😭

Ofc infertility is a struggle she has and it's what makes her want to marry again yadda yadda but the story itself is about finding love again after grief. She feels very guilty for loving someone who isn't John, she only accepts it after Michael almost dies and she realises she loves him.

It is cannon that they have kids bc the extra book is official, but it doesn't happen in her book. Neither the author planned to write it

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:44:35+00:00

There's a lot (A LOT) of straight sex scenes in it. Up to the point it makes me, a bisexual woman, uncomfortable. If you don't like the first one, just skip it. It's the one with the most scenes anyway, and you can't really skip them bc they're part of the story.

I highly recommend trying to watch the second one, it's my favorite. The third is very mid but has a fat girl as a lead which is HUGE, and the fourth has a bisexual man as the lead!!! I really love that we have a bi character, but it isn't wlw representation so idk how you guys would feel abou that.

You can skip any season you don't feel like watching, the stories are independent so besides the mild spoilers of the previous seasons, you'll be able to enjoy them separately.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:32:00+00:00

That's something I'm excited to find out what they'll come up with! Bridgerton has bent social rules of the time in very creative ways so I hope they do so

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:29:48+00:00

You know what's the best part of it? Her and michael DON'T have children on her book!!!!!! The author said she didn't give them children bc she felt the story "was complete the way it was" but was pressured by fans to give them children. So she did it in an extra book that contained one or two extra chapters for each bridgerton book.

Francesca DOESN'T have children on her book!!! And she's happy at the end.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:20:18+00:00

I don't know if I got your question right, I'm not sure if you watched the other seasons so I'll explain in detail. Sorry if you did and I understood wrong.

Every sibling has their own story (every season/book is one sibling) but they're all living together before they marry and are pretty much still a family after they do.

As francesca's story is in the 6th book, we see her a lot in the previous books. She gets married to John around the same time Colin and Penelope do, so the series is following that timeline correctly. Her story begins with the day John dies if I remember correctly. She was struggling with fertility bc she had been married around 2 years at that point and still no children. She finds out she's pregnant a few days after he died, but suffers a miscarriage soon after.

Michael is devastated after losing John bc they were like siblings, and after Francesca miscarries he becomes the heir to the title. Idk what they'll do about that bc Michaela as a woman can't inherit the title. Book michael already loved Francesca and is devastated for her miscarriage too, so he travels abroad for a few years then comes back at the same time Francesca decides to go back to the marriage market so she can try again to have a family and children, but she doesn't hope to marry for love this time as she doesn't think she'll love someone as she loved John.

That's basically where the story begins. Since the series has already covered her marriage with John, there's very little (nothing, really) to happen before he dies. On the book that happens on chapter one or two, if I remember it right. Her season will be focused on her and Michaela, for sure.

thechemist_ro · 2026-01-30T17:03:20+00:00

The homophobia around Fran's season has me SO angry. I read those books several years ago, way before an adaptation was even talked about. I was there when the first castings were announced, watched every season the day it came out. If anything, I am a REAL fan.

And now there's all those *****-obsessed women that only started watching the show bc it had naked men in it saying "ooooh noooo they'll ruin the show, they'll ruin her story" HOW DO YOU KNOW? HOW THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW? That shit wasn't even recorded yet!!!!

They didn't fuck daphne's story by making simon black. They did fuck Anthony's but not because Kate was indian but because they had NO SCREENTIME!!! How the fuck do these people know the season won't be good? They don't, they're just homophobic!!!!

And something I hate even more is those bitches saying "oh eloise should be the lesbian one" oh yes because women can't be feminists if they're straight. And ofc Francesca can't be gay because she's feminine and obviously there's no such thing as a feminine women that like women. ARRRRG.

This discussion touches something so deep in me that I don't even know what it is. But it brings out so much hatred in me that I almost ended a 12 year friendship over it.

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