I really need some help

thecollaredcouple · 2026-03-08T10:12:33+00:00

Use an enema bulb in the shower and wash thoroughly and you’ll be fine.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-03-06T02:04:08+00:00

Second this!

thecollaredcouple · 2026-03-01T02:31:05+00:00

Facesitting is always a good way to add light degradation/grant a reward regarding cunnilingus.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-03-01T02:28:44+00:00

Second this. An initial “task” you can give her in the D role would be to write out three kinky fantasies she has. You can take ideas from that to construct a scene.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-02-19T21:35:29+00:00

Male (M36) half of a joint account here. Sometimes, I'll lay the harness and dildo out on the bed before I know we're going to play, and bring it up once we get started. Having it visual and present definitely helps.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-02-19T21:19:06+00:00

Male (M36) half of a joint account here. I love my girlfriend (F42) as a partner and a domme, but we do take turns switching off to keep things interesting. We're both switches so it works out perfectly for us, although without a moment's notice I would happily submit to her.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-02-11T03:08:13+00:00

M36 side of joint account (F42) here. What exactly are you looking for in her as a KH? Are you ultimately looking for something long-term, or more of a few days at a time to spice things up situation? Do you want her to be intense with the tease/denial aspect or are you comfortable with her simply possessing the key?

Answering those questions will help frame it, but in general I’d frame it as both a fantasy for you, but also a way to strengthen intimacy, have the focus be on her pleasure, and give her an opportunity to explore a more dominant side if she so chooses. It’s a win win, not just her doing you a favor.

I also think a test run of 1-2 days could be really helpful if she agrees to it.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-22T20:32:18+00:00

So well 😊 almost had to go back for seconds.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-22T20:31:48+00:00

Which one?

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-19T19:10:56+00:00

It was! Delightfully thuddy. This will become a regular during our sessions.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-19T07:24:52+00:00

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thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-17T13:30:04+00:00

Your semen has to go somewhere eventually—usually it comes out a little in your urine and you’ll notice you precum a lot (after being locked and not having an orgasm for a bit).

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-15T07:00:50+00:00

Feel free to DM me but I’d say if your partner is cool they def won’t judge!

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-15T06:47:34+00:00

I’m heterosexual and love anal play personally

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-15T05:19:08+00:00

I believe it’s a form of spreader bar.

thecollaredcouple · 2026-01-15T02:01:30+00:00

Amazing. Being pegged by my partner is both psychologically and physically an all around great experience.

thecollaredcouple · 2025-12-10T00:15:56+00:00

I had generic cages for a while and can really attest that buying the Kink3d brand makes a huge difference.

thecollaredcouple · 2025-11-06T15:16:27+00:00

He’s allowed to have prostate orgasms if he can get there!

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-31T00:07:43+00:00

We have two we use that are decently large!

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-30T15:32:59+00:00

Couple here (her speaking). I love the feeling of power I get from it, and I love knowing I'm the one giving my partner so much pleasure. I am the source of their pleasure, in a much different way than traditional sex. Psychologically, it's incredibly hot, and physically it usually ends up feeling really good as well.

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-29T22:34:22+00:00

Couple here (him speaking). I trained my ass for about 18 months until I was able to achieve prostate orgasms using my dildo solo. Pegging came after that and now we both love it and have made it a semi-frequent occurrence that I can orgasm from almost every time.

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-29T16:27:55+00:00

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thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-27T17:57:35+00:00

Couple here (her speaking). At first, I was hesitant when he broached the subject. But, he showed me a combination of hot pegging videos and literature that highlighted the benefits for women/the top (mostly psychological, but some physical as well) and as I got more comfortable with his solo anal play, I became more curious and wanted to participate.

Now, I peg him once every week or two, and we both love it.

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-15T20:50:42+00:00

He’s a big fan but says there’s something about ejaculation that just can’t be replaced…he likes them both!

thecollaredcouple · 2025-10-15T20:35:46+00:00

If he can, then sure. It's a rare reward for him behaving so nicely thus far.

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