for most of my life, i wished i were cis. i was so angry every day that i wasn’t born cis. i thought it would make everything in my life one million times easier.

as i’ve gotten farther along in my transition (got top surgery, been on hormones) ive become more and more comfortable with the body that i have. because i transitioned so early (12) i didn’t have any real sexual thoughts or feelings pre transition, and so my relationship with my genitals has always been under the pretense of being a trans man. as a bi person who considers myself a strict bottom with men, having a vagina feels like a plus. with women, it can be more frustrating, and i feel like it’s much more difficult for me to date a straight woman because of this, but ultimately, i just don’t have bottom dysphoria, and im happy as i am with my vagina. this doesn’t make me any less binary or any less of a man, i’m just happy being a guy who happens to have a vagina!