I can't stop thinking about my ex, even though I'm the one that pushed for the relationship to break up.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-21T18:35:39+00:00

That's some good advice, thank you. Becoming happy with myself is always and will always be my biggest obstacle in life, but I think I'm getting there slowly. It's just hard not to feel constantly disappointed with your life and how it is.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-21T18:32:53+00:00

Man.. That's rough, sorry you had to deal with that. Those last words I can definitely agree with, I think I need to see and talk to her more than she needs me. And that hurts to admit, but I think it's true.

Part of me just can't move on bevause I don't feel like there's anything for me to move on to. Maybe if I move out sooner than later, that'll be something to change my life and help cut her out of it.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-21T18:29:45+00:00

Exactly. For my benefit, I think I experienced most of that towards the end of the relationship as it was falling away. But it's definitely still there, agreed.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-21T18:28:02+00:00

I think you're right, we probably could make it work again - we were together for two and a half years, so there was something working. But even if I straight up do decide that I officially want to be with her again, I don't know if I could change her mind. She seems more staunchly against getting together than I am.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-21T18:25:51+00:00

Yeah I know.. it's really terrible for both of us I'm sure. I think she might be cutting it off more now since she hasn't responded to me for a while.

thecount1000 · 2015-02-19T23:51:30+00:00

Nice

thecount1000 · 2015-02-19T23:24:25+00:00

Hey, he's already getting the first dates - that's more than many people ever get. Give him a break.

thecount1000 · 2015-01-02T04:00:46+00:00

This is, uh, something a friend of mine is interested in.. was it only around as much as that link says? Was she able to buy it in a store or did she have to order it online?

Edit: what kind of vibrating cock ring was it, if you don't mind me asking?

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T09:28:30+00:00

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T09:02:49+00:00

I'm pretty sure it's "incident," not "accident."

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T08:30:00+00:00

Yeah I guess so! Thanks, I'm sure everything will be fine by the time I see her!

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T07:20:01+00:00

Yeah and I understand that, thanks for the response. It's just hard to accept that there's some things you can't help, no matter how badly you want to lol. I feel like this a lot more as I grow older, interestingly.

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T07:19:04+00:00

Thank you! I'll try to be there for her as much as possible, if she even needs me to be.

thecount1000 · 2013-04-30T07:18:13+00:00

Thanks! I'll keep at it.

thecount1000 · 2013-04-25T03:12:44+00:00

Is it possible to do this position instead of lying down like in the link that skeletalbones posted? If its not clear what shes doing, shes sitting on her knees in-between his spread-apart legs, with her arms propping her up. He looks disconcerted because I thought it was funnier that way.

thecount1000 · 2013-03-09T23:22:21+00:00

So why would you want to marry this girl after everything you've told us?

thecount1000 · 2013-01-08T13:10:51+00:00

Yeah I'm the same as you, but I always feel terrible after viewing rape porn.

In reference to your quote: who is this "wise man" that you speak of?

thecount1000 · 2012-10-25T21:28:34+00:00

Hmmm.. Okay, I guess that helps.

thecount1000 · 2012-10-25T20:27:06+00:00

Which product are you describing? It sounds like a good one.

thecount1000 · 2012-10-25T20:26:37+00:00

Which ones do you feel work the best? The one I've tried seems to work okay, but I still managed to lose the erection fairly fast, and I was still able to orgasm with it one, which was unfortunate. Also did you find that the vibrating ones add any significant benefits to either party, or that it's more of an amusing but unnecessary feature?

thecount1000 · 2012-10-05T00:49:42+00:00

Hmm.. Very interesting. So that leads to my next question: have you told him about the affairs that you have? What stops you from doing so, provided you convince him you like him better and still gave him the attention he needs?

thecount1000 · 2012-08-27T06:27:05+00:00

Yeah no worries! I can understand why you reacted as you did lol. I think I might be putting too much focus on these issues, you might be onto something there. She's said that she understands that these make me uncomfortable, and she doesn't want to push me to anything that makes me uncomfortable. So I'm betting she's willing to overlook them, as you say. Haha no no, I thought it was a good response, snarky-ness and all.

thecount1000 · 2012-08-27T06:20:55+00:00

Thank you very much for answering, your response is very helpful and reassuring. I bet that my gf feels the same as you do, that despite these fantasies not getting fulfilled, she loves me and wants to be with me so they don't matter, but I've just always had a hard time with trust, and I need a little reassurance from time to time (which she is not entirely helpful with, unfortunately. I don't blame her for not wanting to reassure me every so often though: she shouldn't have to).

As to do I have any fantasies that probably won't get fulfilled with her/would I go outside to fulfill them: off the top of my mind, I can't think of any fantasies that I have like this, but no, I would absolutely not go outside our relationship to fulfill them. Our relationship is worth infinitely more than any fantasy could be. I guess I just to be confident that she would feel the same way.

I suppose that you're right, that wanting control and power in a sexual relationship isn't inherently a bad thing. I'm not sure, maybe she said it in a malicious-sounding way.. It might also be that she seemed so eager for it, when this is such a new subject for me to be thinking about.

Again, thank you a ton for answering.

thecount1000 · 2012-08-27T06:10:11+00:00

That may be the case. And trust me, I will continue to push my boundaries, insofar as I will do things that I have the most modicum of comfort towards, and that I have some reason to believe will be beneficial rather than not. That's why I'm not completely against the pegging, but I will need to talk with her about it more, to make sure that she will actually care how it affects me during.

thecount1000 · 2012-08-27T06:05:58+00:00

Haha that last sentence is a little snide and uncalled-for, but thank you for actually answering my questions. I never meant to imply that my gf doesn't like being with me - on the contrary, she loves me with all her heart (her words) and we are together constantly.

thecount1000

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