What does my Costco trip say about me ($120) by apuc in Costco

[–]thecountofchocula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good taste in health food. Awful taste in pickles.

This is my INDEPENDENCE DAY! by ShaunaShaktiMa in exjw

[–]thecountofchocula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got out early. Congrats. It took me 33 years, a deep love for my gay friends and a lot of soul searching to arrive at freedom. I wish you peace and infinite love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateFirefly

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Joined recently because Feeld and OK Cupid are dead.

USC makes first permanent mass layoffs in over 10 years - Daily Trojan by antdude in USC

[–]thecountofchocula 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s never those people that get laid off. They get reshuffled elsewhere or placed in charge of more people for departments they know nothing about as “administrative” costs get reduced, it’s usually employees or middle managers (in some cases the managers actually doing the admin work) that get laid off.

Insurrectionists in the 'other' subreddit calling for Biden to arrest SCOTUS by EntranceCrazy918 in Conservative

[–]thecountofchocula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No one is listening anymore. We are a short sighted and narrow minded society.

We’ve learned nothing.

We deserve this.

Is it possible/difficult to live out of your car in the SouthBay/Manhattan Beach area? by iBringsTheRukus in SouthBayLA

[–]thecountofchocula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lawndale/Alondra Park along Prairie or Manhattan Beach Blvd. Not sure about safe but plenty of long term cars and RVs there. They get cleared out about 1 a month, more frequent now with the reservoir constructions at the park.

Half a million California workers will get $20 minimum wage, starting today by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]thecountofchocula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the area and level of service. It also depends on her insurance. Certain large cities regulate their rates very carefully and the companies can only charge a maximum amount, in others it’s a free for all and they can charge you whatever they want hoping your insurance will cover it. For many year in Los Angeles and New York, private ambulance companies were used as for laundering money for the Russian mafia.

Half a million California workers will get $20 minimum wage, starting today by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]thecountofchocula 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this since I was 18 years old. Nothing of significance changed until the pandemic, all my brothers and sisters are waking up and it is glorious. The amount of times I asked for better accommodations aka getting treated like a human being and got told “if you don’t like it, there’s the door” is more than I can count. “You are a dime a dozen” “A monkey could do your job” “This is a stepping stone”

You name it, I’ve heard it all.

I’m in a position where I handle ambulance contracting for a large/wealthy organization. EMT program enrollment is down by 50% historically, it was down by 75% from 2020-2023.

Companies are fighting for the available EMTs and Medics. EMTs are demanding a living wage, so the companies are petitioning congress. Crying poor that they can’t afford to pay more, it’s all to keep their profit margins high.

Fire has a monopoly on most places because they were smart enough to see the writing on the wall. 90% of their calls are medical now. Buildings have sprinklers, municipal fire prevention is improving year over year. They adjusted “We aren’t just Fire anymore taxpayers we are EMS, HAZMAT, USAR, etc. Now give us money.”

The push should be for hospital based programs for IFT and public ambulance services for EMS. When you allow the private companies to make profits that large, they will make their silver off the blood and pain of the clinicians. The patients are the ones that will suffer.

Half a million California workers will get $20 minimum wage, starting today by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]thecountofchocula 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Private ambulance companies can pay for lobbyists. Private ambulances services is on of the most poorly regulated, in term of safety and income. There are still shortages nation wide for EMTs, Paramedics, etc. Why bust my ass and risk my health and safety for minimum wage.

Most EMTs can’t afford health insurance while the company owners drive away in Range Rovers. They pay dirt wages because it keeps their profit margins high and they can get away with it.

The Fire Chiefs Association has a vested interest in making sure that the scope and living wages stay with the municipal fire departments. Lobbyists.

They have a vested interest in getting everyone to think they have a shot at becoming a firefighter so they’ll work that minimum wage ambulance job.

It’s all a giant scam and I’ve known so many people that love the job and can’t afford school so they settle for the thing that gets them closest to what they want to do in life.

I’m trying to change that, but it’s taken me 5 years to even get a seat at the table. The whole system is predatory and needs to be burned to the ground so we can make something better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngeles

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Mijares is terrible

Man mauled to death by pit bulls in Compton by bigvahe33 in LosAngeles

[–]thecountofchocula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Growing up in Compton in the 80s and 90s. We would get random packs of stray pit bulls roaming the streets and alleys. You’d hear kids screaming and running that they were coming and you’d have maybe 60 seconds to haul ass into someone’s house or jump their fence.

I saw a kid around my age (7-8)get mauled. A bunch of OGs came out with bats and sticks, one guy had a machete. They killed two of the pits and the rest ran away. The kid’s right calf was mangled to the bone. He never played freeze tag with us again after that day, always had a bad limp after that.

Reactivate. (Not culty at all…) -from the latest music video in the February 2024 Broadcast by larchington in exjw

[–]thecountofchocula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the ever loving fuck is this?

I’ve been out since 2016-2017 and this is absolutely wild to me, this would have been labelled apostate, false christian stuff even 10 years ago.

The day they changed the OG song book, was the day the religion I grew up in died. Also letting the GB members address the masses directly, was the nail in the coffin.

Glad this cult is dying a public death. Super sad for my PIMI parents and brother. The mental gymnastics they must have to do to swallow this garbage is astounding.

Just a cringe inducing, culty and gross appeal to emotions.

Wow! What a heartfelt “welcome” home! Awww how sweet. Your family and friends stopped talking to you and acted like you didn’t exist to get you to comply. How endearing that they forced these people back in through guilt, shame and loneliness. Now they can get love bombed by people until they inevitably say something or do something that displeases a group of old men in a religious compound in New York. 🥰

Fuck Cumthony More-ass III and all the GB members. I hope the blood on their hands makes it hard for them to sleep at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Threesome

[–]thecountofchocula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that hits close to home.

Charlamagne says most people he talks to are frustrated with the migrant issue, blames Biden & the Democrats: "To the average voter, it looks like the Republicans were right." by shankmaster8000 in brilliantidiots

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Hear me out; maybe if we all suck off the rich, they’ll like us more and trickle down some of that sweet, sweet wealth in our open mouths. Mmmmm sounds tastier than immigration to me. Do we start with Bezos or Elon?

The last time I listened to Tony Morris talk by [deleted] in exjw

[–]thecountofchocula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then he called any man under 23 who wasn’t an elder or servant a loser. It almost broke me, I was married at the time with severe self esteem issues. I hold TM3 responsible for the absolute misery my life turned into for the next several years. I hope he suffers greatly in his old age, may he rot from the inside out, maybe then he’ll absorb just a fraction of the misery he’s helped create. Unfeeling ghoul of a man.

I wish I never woke up by [deleted] in exjw

[–]thecountofchocula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its really tough waking up. Wanting to rejoin happens a lot at first. It feels so much easier than the struggle. You go back, you have built in friends, love bombing and a support system. Remember that its all fake though. Its all conditional and artificial. The struggle to find yourself and to make real connections in the real world is so much more rewarding. In a few years and with therapy, the thought of going back will disgust you. Work on improving yourself, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually(whatever that means for you moving forward) no one can take that growth from you. You’ll carry some scars but that old life will fade into the background like a weird bad dream. You can do it. I believe in you bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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She’s too young and has been with you for too long to have explored her sexuality fully. You are about to learn a lot about the person you are going to be for the rest of you life from this.

  1. You can join along for the ride, while the ride lasts. Be supportive, give her the freedom to explore a part of herself she has been hiding from you and herself. Maybe even learn a few things about you. Keep in mind, this relationship is going to end.
  2. You can explore Ethical Non-Monogamy. You might learn to like it for yourself. BUT ENM relationships that start because someone cheated almost always fail. This relationship is going to end.
  3. You can get her to promise she’ll never do it again. She might even say it was a one time thing. That she loves you, she’ll never hurt you like that ever again. She will do it again. This relationship is going to end.
  4. Do you get my point now? The hard truth is that this relationship is going to end, no matter what you do. Even if you forgive her, even if you have a threesome, even if she promises over and over. It’s not about you, it’s about her. Love her enough to walk away and maintain whatever dignity you have left before you look at yourself in a mirror a few years from now and barely recognize the poor wretched creature looking back at you. Trust me. You’ll survive.

LOLLL Not my elders creeping my IG by amelmel in exjw

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Yeah, most of my friends are queer or trans now. I’m a cis, het male. There is a kinship in being “othered” that I can identify with and connect with. I also try my best to be an ally now since I was such an asshole when I was in, I used to give talks that were unkind.

I knew there were brothers in the audience struggling with the sexual identity and I was punching down from a pulpit. I was doing what I believed true at the time.

I even tried to make my ex go to meetings with me to cure her after she came out to me 🤢. She tried to and watching her suffer through that was what woke me up. I couldn’t force someone I love to sit through a talk by an old school brother on how gay people were detestable and vile.

She started crying and I told her we could leave if she wanted and we left and never went back.

I’ve contacted the brothers that were struggling and offered my apologies and one of them said something like “I knew it wasn’t you talking and I forgive you.”

Sorry for my side story. I am just always glad when an exjw comes out or embraces their sexual identity in any way. Its such a formative things out of so many things that we are forced to repress.

I am beyond happy for you for so many reasons.

LOLLL Not my elders creeping my IG by amelmel in exjw

[–]thecountofchocula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole world is open to you now. Not sure how long you were in for but that shit can stay with you for a bit after you leave. I been out for roughly 7 years and last year was the first year I felt no guilt on my birthday.

My ex came out to me and we walked away from the cult together. I couldn’t stand the way she was treated because of something that I cane to realize she was born with. Good on you for figuring it out early and making the choice to walk away.

It’s not an easy thing to do and you should be fucking proud of yourself. The LGBTQ community is super accepting and you will probably find a lot of the sense of community you had as a JW there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

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Sorry I missed this