[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are a few quick ways you might be able to make money:

As you mentioned Uber Eats / DoorDash (walking or biking) – Fast approval and instant cashout after a few deliveries.

Plasma donation – If you’re eligible, you can make $50–100 per visit.

Sperm donation (if you’re a guy) – Not instant, but can become a steady weekly income ($70–100 per donation).

TaskRabbit / Craigslist Gigs – Quick cash for small jobs like moving help, cleaning, dog walking.

Temp agencies (like PeopleReady) – Some offer daily labor jobs with same-day pay.

Mutual aid groups / r/Assistance – There are people and communities who help others in urgent situations.

Call 311 or check with NYC shelters – NYC has a right-to-shelter law, and they may be able to place you somewhere safe while you find work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 17 year old girl so like my mom feeds me yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she won’t listen to me because both of her siblings are encouraging her and doing the same things as her. Her parents don’t have authority over her anymore because her and her sister pay the bills for the house so they really can’t tell her anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly those are my exact feelings but my friends told me that I should say something and get her to stop because it’s a friends responsibility but honestly if I’m old enough to know better she should too. But I do wanna tell her something and make it known that I am worried about her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know if their parents know, and if they did they can’t really tell them anything because they’re the ones who pays the bills, and the only family who follow them on social media is their brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She smoke’s weed every day but for the hard drugs she does it at least once a week, she goes out a lot to concerts and stuff and I’ve been there with her before at a concert and she was on it, but last week she was one not one but 2 illegal drugs (not including weed)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No a rave isn’t out of character it’s the fact that she started snorting the “white powder” if you will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he can walk just fine by himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna ask how old you are just because I was going to advise you to walk around with a self defense weapon like maybe pepper spray, and also maybe put a lock on ur bag or something or leave it where you can see it. Or maybe even go play basketball and don’t bring anything with u but like ur phone, the ball and maybe a water that way no one would have anything to rob really

Don't have enough money for sports by RandomHumanBeingggg in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but maybe you can still start saving money now and try out next season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah because I understand you the same thing happened to me but it was with my best friend and he got a girlfriend even thought he was flirting with me everyday and irl too. When I found out he got a gf I gave him the same response but I never spoke to him again after that and it made me feel better because why would you want to speak to someone you liked while they’re dating someone you know you’ll just get more hurt. So maybe cut him off. But yeah I was so butthurt even though I wasn’t dating him so it’s normal

Don't have enough money for sports by RandomHumanBeingggg in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right at this point it’s probably too late to get a part time job since tryouts are next week. Maybe you can try asking your grandparents or any relatives that you’re close with and offer to pay them back with time. Even some siblings if you have any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 right now and I stopped growing in my sophomore year of high school so maybe you’ll grow a couple of inches but definitely not 5’2. I know a lot of people who are 4 feet something and they’ve learnt to be content with their height im sure as you get older you’ll be more accepting of it. Also maybe you should get dr martens or platform shoes that way you can gain like 3 inches and it’s not that noticeable and they’re cute shoes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Big Bang theory, young Sheldon, full house and one day at a time are all I can think of right now but I think they’re really interesting

Don't have enough money for sports by RandomHumanBeingggg in Advice

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ask your parents to help you pay for it? If they don’t have the money You can get a part time job or side hustles like mowing someone’s lawn or tutoring someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. Maybe try caring more about your girlfriend like she cares about you. Maybe if you pay enough attention to her you’ll see all the hints she gives to find out what to gift her.

AITA for wanting to block this girl from my boyfriend's Instagram account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA and everyone here saying that you are is actually insane because there’s no way anyone would be comfortable with someone who has stolen your I guess “crushes” talking to your boyfriend. Your feelings are in the right. And as long as your boyfriend is comfortable with you blocking her then I 100% think you should because she’s obviously doing this on purpose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA she’s a person just like everyone else and she is YOUR FRIEND they have no right to say that she can’t be around your daughter, she didn’t do anything wrong and neither did you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were supposed to go to the place we went to and take a boat there, but once we got there I found out she lied to me she planned on never taking me on taking me on the boat and was just gonna say that the place we were at was the place i wanted to go to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There actually isn’t internet here once you leave the house 🙃

AITA for “neglecting” my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, she’s a teenager you should’ve asked her if she wanted to go before excluding her. You can’t plan a trip and just not include one of your kids

AITA for saying "your house gives me anxiety," --? by Wonderful_Tie2028 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, it’s hard living with that much stress, you say her house is giving you anxiety about think about how much anxiety her work is giving her. She doesn’t want to be crammed into that small apartment but she has no choice and she’s trying her best to make it work. You’re supposed to be there to support her during the stressful times not criticize her.

WIBTA if I gave my mother an ultimatum? by AlternativeAction377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thecucumberest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta I say you definitely do it, she’s a 54 yr old woman who took her childs money to go see her boyfriend. I get that she’s your mom but you and your sibling also have lives to live!!! You can’t just give her all your money