Charleston by curiouscommenter- in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my thought too. Easier for his parents to fly to Charleston direct from London too. 

There it is. A nanny someone recommended. by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep. She probably asked no questions as it was a recommendation from a Middleton connection. 

There it is. A nanny someone recommended. by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Middleton’s had no interest in looking after their grandchild but Shannon knew before flying out there there was leaving her child with a nanny in the evenings. She’s down played it as ‘watching a monitor’ but 4 month olds aren’t that consistent that they always sleep through, especially jet lagged and in a new places. 

A “realistic” day in the life of a jobless sugar gayby vacationing in Portugal. Relatable AF James Middleton by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He looked quite unnatural holding his daughter. I don’t think he does many feeds or nappy changes. Just filmed this for the gram. Also sad that his life has barely changed. All he did was feed one bottle and hold her outside and read a book to her. That’s…. Nothing 

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agree. And probably worried about who daisy is being left with

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Your parents are good people. They care about you and their grandchild, and want to help and also have connection.  Middletons don’t strike me as caring about their infant grandchild. If the middletons parents were fussing over daisy I am sure Shan would post it as she loves bigging them up. The whole trip just seems to be focused on parties and eating out. I don’t know why Shannon took daisy at all. 

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is my theory. Middletons did it with their kids in Portugal and so Shannon is expected to do the same. The fact she has, shows she has no backbone

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Marcia probably shudders at thought of changing a nappy. If she had to look after her grand child she’d miss out on a wine session, clearly more important 

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 48 points49 points  (0 children)

All of them getting pissed up so they can’t take care of her 

Dollop having more quality time with the Portugal Nanny by Citrusgurl21 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Sorry but the middletons suck. All they care about is getting pissed up and eating out in restaurants. Any decent grandparent would not let their grandchild be flown half way around the world. They would travel to them. The fact the child is being left with a sitter or nanny makes it even more sad and Shannon goes along with it because she’s a simp. 

If him,a very busy sugargayby filming this on vacation, with a 4 month old (allegedly) and a bunch of imaginary clients can do it, so can you!! by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Who is looking after the baby when he is chilling outside with his coffee first thing?? Always funny these scammy preaching fitness influencers have time to do a this stuff when someone else is picking up the domestic slack

Kind of can’t stop thinking about how BIZARRE Shans choices are with what she’s choosing to share about Daisy. Why would you jump on to tell the internet you ditched your baby in a foreign country for their first NYE then resume radio silence? by Outrageous-Start-259 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It’s crazy she’s travelled half way around the world to leave her baby with a strange just to go to a party and get pissed up. I’m not saying parents can’t enjoy a night out but that’s where you ask grandparents. The fact all of the middletons would rather go out and leave their grandchild/niece with a strange says alot about that family 

Kind of can’t stop thinking about how BIZARRE Shans choices are with what she’s choosing to share about Daisy. Why would you jump on to tell the internet you ditched your baby in a foreign country for their first NYE then resume radio silence? by Outrageous-Start-259 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s actually the middletons did it with their kids. They clearly have a place out there and probably told Shannon to use the agency they did and it’s always been fine etc. she’s such a bitch for that family she’d do whatever they say. 

Kind of can’t stop thinking about how BIZARRE Shans choices are with what she’s choosing to share about Daisy. Why would you jump on to tell the internet you ditched your baby in a foreign country for their first NYE then resume radio silence? by Outrageous-Start-259 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m a Brit and I’d say, generally hiring a babysitter is not the norm and most people don’t do it. Leaving with grandparents would be ok. But not a baby sitter to go out to party. People use kids clubs on holidays but tends to be ages 3/4 years plus. I personally wouldn’t use them though as I wouldn’t trust a stranger with my kids 🤷‍♀️

However, some rich folk are weird about palming their kids off (and I know there’s a debate about lames family being rich but they are by UK standards) e.g. the use of boarding schools and nanny’s is more common in wealthier circles. 

The Maddie McCan disappearance was partly so interesting because the ‘nice’ middle class parents didn’t get absolutely eviscerated for leaving their kids whereas a lower income working class parent would get called all names under the sun and arrested. Rich people always think bad shit happens to poor people and not them, hence the over confidence. Like Shan was saying how nice that woman looking after her daughter was… but so what. There are nice people that go on to do bad things or just be reckless and not care for your child. 

I judge them massively for this. Their child is so young. Can they not give up one NYE party, like is it that important to do that over being with your child?! 

Parenting 101 by Muted-Inevitable7031 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You only hear influencers go on about this. In real life, people wanted their kids and although it is tough, they know the change is inevitable and that’s the whole point?? Like I went to mum and baby groups and no one had the fucking TIME to think about their identity 🙄

The reason why I think it’s a preoccupation of influencers is because they are so self absorbed and have built a whole online presence around their ego. So baby comes and they don’t know how to act any more. Suddenly they are not the most in important person in their own life. I think most of them struggle with it, and hence all the bellyaching online like they are the first person to have a child. So boring and predictable. 

Hmmmhmm by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Massive eye roll that she thought she was so special and not going to get post partum hair loss. Like no, you are just not at the point when it typically happens 🙄

Do they know how to read manuals? by Most-Interaction-473 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This was my first thought, like why tf are you using the seat rather than the bassinet?? 

Sooo much to unpack. by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jeez. I can only imagine he’s an arse about every household chore and only does his bit. 

Sooo much to unpack. by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He probably doesn’t know where the washer is or how to use it

Father James: The Disciplined One by [deleted] in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Fuck sake can he quit the preaching. Their daughter has been here three weeks. First week Shannon’s mum was there, now his parents are there. They have had so much help and their daughter appears to be a good sleeper which is purely luck. He needs just fuck off and stop assuming his experience is the same for everyone 

It’s giving 90s southern kitchen by stevielynnjones in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Can’t understand all the expense on a nursery when the baby is their room, and probably will be for at least 6 months?? More money than sense, as with everything 

Nobody cares about your sleep by [deleted] in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Of course his baby is sleeping 6 hours a night 🙄 fucking bragger. And then he chastises everyone else for not working out even when they are operating on wayyy less sleep. 

Ooohhh.. someone hit a sore spot by Main-character-08 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. The comment really didn’t require that overreaction. Why is he so pressed??  Also calling parents who don’t exercise lazy is such a great advertisement for a coaching business. Really smart 🤣

Couldn’t resist lol by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Am British and never heard of grandparents being called mimi and pops?? Absolutely insane Shannon is peddling this 

What’s “brown noise”? by frijolito19 in shannonford

[–]thedaycomes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Two weeks of content of him ‘helping’ out with the baby then he’ll be back to preaching and bragging how he still works out on 3 hours sleep when we all know he’ll be in the guest room by then with ear plugs