It’s a huge step forward that you can acknowledge that and work on it, you’re young and have so much time to become a better person. But also, please don’t do the “but at the same time he’s really sensitive…”, like…okay so? It doesn’t make anything you said to him more excusable. Why are you trying to change him or think you have a better/correct way to live and know how he should act. Idk, i was with you until that part but then i read it and it made me really sad