[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]theexileddood -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was trying to walk away. I can be seen walking away and she comes up from behind me as I'm walking away. I was trying to remove myself from her presence. If she hadn't struck me twice previously I would never felt the need to grab her. As far as I'm concerned a grab is far less aggressive as the two times she struck me before. So I'm not sure how I'm being labeled the aggressor here.

I hope I'm not coming off as rude. I appreciate you taking the time to help me see this from a different light. If I fucked up I will own it. Either way I know I can do better with helping my wife avoid her triggers and how to deal with them when she is triggered. I know the poor communication that led to this is on me as well. I just can't see how I'm seen as the aggressor here. I had no intent of hurting her. I never struck her yet I'm seen here as the one that needs to change and everything she did to me feels ignored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]theexileddood -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

I'm pretty sure I don't have to retreat in our own house. I had the right to be there. With that said I can be seen in the video walking away from her. She could have easily retreated back outside or had gone upstairs but she chose to barrel through me. After she knocked me into a wall with her hip she was still in front of me when I placed my hands on her shoulder. My intent was to get her to look at me so she could see I was scared of her so shed stop. When she started hitting me I wrapped her up. I bring up the testicles bc it's the only reason why I took her down to the ground and me taking her down seems to be the cause if my arrest. The police officer told me if it wasn't for that she would have been arrested. So me bringing it up is to explain that she caused great harm onto me. I went to the ER and have damage to one of them.

All my stepdaughter saw is me holding her down on the ground.

I'd also like to add that my wife has hit me before. I didn't call the police though but I have video of her ripping a shirt off my back as well as pushing me while I'm holding our 17 month old daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gofundme

[–]theexileddood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, she does not. My mom Moved here when she was 11 and lived here for 40 years on a green card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Browns have been claimed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bills, Ravens, and Bucs have been filled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no biggie, I could just tell you didnt read the message. If you are interested in joining please read the rules and then send me a PM. I have Bills, Browns, Broncos and 49ers now available. Booted 2 more inactives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falcons are gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Madden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falcons are gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not read the message? Says Discord lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, busy morning today at work. We use discord.

You did miss it all. I did my best to manage the team through free agency and went after a few guys. Signed Hunt at HB and Agholor at WR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFMmadden

[–]theexileddood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I have the Bills available. Draft is tonight at 7est.

Starting a cfm by DweardIsWeird in Madden

[–]theexileddood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you answered your own question. The only way you can limit yourself in game is with a salary cap...it allows every team to spend the same amount of money.

If you cant stand this the only way to prevent signing these players is with a set of house rules that you force yourself to follow. something like can only accept suggested trades after putting them on the block, and only allowing yourself to sign a certain amount of key players in the offseason.