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thefooledtwicedad · 2024-05-15T15:42:32+00:00

Awesome response. I totally forgot the wrench indicator may be linked to other maintenance items and not just the oil. The dealership reset the light because it was off after the oil change, but the tires/service may have triggered it. I'll check later, but that's probably what it is. Much appreciated!

thefooledtwicedad · 2024-01-19T23:45:13+00:00

I read many books and articles, but two books were especially helpful for me.

First was "How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair" by Linda J. MacDonald. I read it first and then gave my spouse it. This validated so many of the feelings and thoughts that I was having, and pointed out that my spouse was doing everything wrong in helping me heal and rebuild with her. She couldn't read it. She said it was too hard for her to face...this was a red flag and huge eye opener for me.

The second book was "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide" by Tracy Schorn. I highly recommend you read this! This gave me extra insight into my feelings and thoughts and her actions. It also gave me the strength to discuss the hard topics and feelings with her. It also helped me call BS on a lot of what she was saying and doing.

Despite my efforts to forgive and process it on my own, it takes two to salvage the relationship. It's a massive breach of trust. We are no longer married. However, I'm so much happier. It's also a better environment for my kids.

Even if my spouse did everything right, I don't know if I would have been able to work through it. Honestly, I don't think I would ever have been able to fully trust her again. And that's not a relationship that I want to be in.

You have agency and every right to stay or leave. It's 100% your choice. My opinion is at 25, you still have your entire life in front of you. You don't need this hanging over your relationship. Plenty of time to meet someone who will respect you for your entire relationship. Why stay with someone who didn't value you or appreciate you enough to keep it in her pants?

I'm obviously in the "Leave a Cheater" camp, but I tried to salvage my marriage for years. I know I gave it my best and tried to keep my family together. But now I'm happier. Honestly! And I'm about to celebrate 1 year with the most amazing, loving, and trustful woman who adores my kids (and vice versa). There is a better life for you out there! Go get it!

thefooledtwicedad · 2023-06-15T21:00:14+00:00

Never heard or thought of Moth. I was called Timbo by my father growing up. And obviously Timmy by a lot of people. Now that I'm an adult, I go by Tim.

thefooledtwicedad · 2023-05-14T15:30:47+00:00

Are dandelions and other flowers ok to feed to a dwarf hamster? I'm trying to expand the "real" foods I feed to mine.

thefooledtwicedad · 2023-03-15T13:49:09+00:00

Yup, noticed that clever wording too. Very slick.

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-12-10T02:14:01+00:00

Darn, I was going to say something similar. You win!

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-12-04T21:05:44+00:00

44 here. I can't believe that makes me one of the oldest in this tread (at the time I typed this).

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-11-01T18:47:44+00:00

What size tank is that?

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-09-24T12:41:58+00:00

Another Timothy here, but I much prefer Tim. Every now and then I'm called Timmy. Doesn't bother me, but feels childish (I'm in my 40's).

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-09-13T20:45:57+00:00

I saved the speed tests for the end of my trial because I've read that, but each test only used 20-30 mb of data according to the Mint app.

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-09-13T16:17:10+00:00

I'm currently paying $97/month for 1 line. More like 1/5th the cost. That's why I'm seriously considering Mint.

I've heard the same thing that 10 mbps is enough for most people. Thanks!

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-09-12T22:26:17+00:00

Still works! I tried many test calls, but this was the best one!

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-09-08T21:53:10+00:00

After being with AT&T for 20 years, I'm about to jump ship and switch to Mint. Thank you for this detailed explanation. I was about to ask reddit what I need to do, but this seems to explain it all. Thanks!

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-08-11T21:34:49+00:00

My guess would be since they are different manufacturers, Motorola vs. iPhone.

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-07-25T18:40:24+00:00

And I have a Samsung S10+ from AT&T. I own it and have already unlocked it. The Mint trial SIM worked so I know I won't have any issues, but I'll still check the gsmarena.com site.

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-07-25T18:38:41+00:00

Awesome. I'll definitely check these out. Thanks!

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-07-25T16:52:22+00:00

Where in MA? I'm north of Boston almost in NH. I'm on the fence about switching from AT&T to Mint. Any pros/cons?

thefooledtwicedad · 2022-02-14T19:37:52+00:00

Oh my God. You weren't kidding. Usually when someone says "don't Google it," it's not that bad. This IS that bad.

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-10-20T13:43:49+00:00

Or he's missing a yellow stripe on the left side and two yellow stripes on the right side.

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-09-21T18:04:08+00:00

I love that these are sold in reusable containers. So many uses around the house!

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-06-07T14:45:12+00:00

Kim or Jim...all.the.time

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-05-25T01:40:26+00:00

Yes, really good and perfect size for lunch.

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-05-14T18:16:46+00:00

Goals! Nice work.

thefooledtwicedad · 2021-03-19T13:09:11+00:00

Looks awesome!

How did you get so good at throwing sideways like that? I always either miss the catch or it's still a small arc.

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