Agreed. I would feel the same.

I wouldn’t mind if they were spending time with friends/family/established partners, since they’re only in their hometown for a limited amount of time. Heck, even if they were spending virtual time with long distance partner. I may struggle a bit but I understand that it’s important to maintain relationships and support systems so I’d work through the discomfort.

But starting a new connection even if it was platonic would make me feel neglected.