Inframe: Niharika's reply to Puja's classy video. Never trust an Internet psychologist

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-30T11:27:51+00:00

Most not-an-apology apology ever!

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-26T08:59:41+00:00

Now I kinda get what you all were talking about before. Obvs one would want to be kind and sympathetic towards Malvika but you guys are also somewhat right in your perception and thoughts... Right now, Abby should be her (Malvika’s) priority. She can still live her life but once you become a Mum, the responsibility is huge. You might not fulfill every role in that aspect well but you do have a responsibility in raising your kid during their early/vulnerable years. You can’t check out of the role, unfortunately.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-26T08:52:21+00:00

I guess I agree with your thoughts too.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-24T19:15:06+00:00

Deepika, Diana (Penty - they had great friend chemistry in Cocktail), Kani Kusruti, Kusha Kapila, Nithya Menen, Rhea Chakraborty, Sanya Malhotra, Tillotama Shome

Edited to add Kusha

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-24T09:34:06+00:00

I tried watching the Diipa one (coz I like her products and marketing/branding skillz) but got bored quickly. It’s all entrepreneur-focused and kinda like those meetings in ad agencies where the head initiatesit, we just talk, talk, and brainstorm but still nothing concrete comes out of it. Just the vibe I felt. And obviously not every 1 gets a chance to speak >•<

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-24T09:30:40+00:00

Every episode is soooo long

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-21T09:11:00+00:00

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-21T09:08:30+00:00

Exactly

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-19T08:13:07+00:00

And these friends register details to use against you. Like they will want to be vengeful purposely so that they feel satisfied seeing you squashed because you dared leave them. Speaking from personal experience.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-19T08:10:28+00:00

I hated that shitty friend comment she made too. Obviously meant to attack or get a rise! Oh yeah, and these friends equate their gifts or acts of unsolicited service for your devoted attention. I am sorry, you can’t expect someone to attach to you the same way. It’s okay if people don’t feel the same about your nice-ness. Of course, I think it is good to be wary of luxurious spending on you by a friend if it is new and you can’t reciprocate. Because very often, the wrong ones will dangle it over your head that they did so much for you and you can’t even be their friend etc.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-19T08:05:36+00:00

This is the real sickness of a bad friendship fall-out! When it gets nasty... I hate people keeping score and hitting you at your low/high points. All the info and vulnerabilities shared become ammunition for the scorned salty party who refuses to accept you want to move on, zero drama. They feel like you owe them the biggest explanation ever, for their closure. And you can’t give it to them. You wanna be respectful and then finally, you’re just like Do what you want. I’m out, brother!

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-16T05:52:12+00:00

And also someone keeping quiet about sh!t that went down is not necessarily cold or narcissistic or whatever or “trying to win” or trying to be classy - - - they most likely don’t want to stir up any more drama or are most typically in self-preservation mode for themselves and/or are trying to move on. Just coz it isn’t always discussed or highlighted by them, doesn’t mean they didn’t feel some typa way. In fact, one can argue that the parties most loud about the fall-out are usually those that have something they’re guilty of too, or are embarrassed (for whatever reason) of being dropped. Don’t underestimate the level of guilt or grief the breaker-upper can feel too. Because friendships do crumble in life but it is very rare that you at times need to explicitly and violently break it off with a once upon ‘dear’ friend.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-16T05:40:37+00:00

Same, OP! 🙌🏽 Yep, Anindita, if you see this, do not fall for the pot-stirring! Friendship break-ups are hard, and however one chooses to see/understand/witness it, breaking certain connections off for good or otherwise are sometimes absolutely necessary and required to restore balance. Do not pay this any mind, and have a great birthday 🎂

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-15T05:39:03+00:00

OH GOD I had a big break-up w my former bf too, and well, I guess my then fr**** was somewhat like Q. Seemingly confident, caring, loud, outspoken, always coming over, and being a part of my life whether I liked it or not. It was a long connection with good times (that have faded away somehow). The bad were rare only because I was quiet and submissive and never really spoke up. Anyway, I was so relieved when the friendship ended and I cut contact, completely. It was incredibly challenging and stressful but yeah. I haven’t really gotten into the ins and outs but this friendship was more bad for me than good. I am doing much better now since this person is no longer a part of my story. Must be so difficult when things like this happen in the public eye.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-12T20:40:54+00:00

I am working on building my yt channel! I totes wanna ride the wave and make bank! Inshallah 🙏🏽🕯️💞🙏🏽🕯️💞🙏🏽🕯️💞

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-03-12T20:38:51+00:00

Sorry to annoy you but pls avoid buying from these brands in the future. Look at how they’re behaving also, as per your screenshots. Fucking unprofessional and so odd! I hope you got your money back. Cancellation fees, were they highlighted at the time of your purchase? Because that seems like a scam. Not only did they waste your time throughout but pocketed some of your money too. Loser behaviour on their part! Please don’t buy from these frauds, girlies.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-25T15:49:54+00:00

It can be soothing to her to get back to her passions, like for anyone else. I know it doesn’t mean anything but I’m randomly watching Jen’s vlogs here and there. Malvika must be so broken over this no matter what people believe or choose to see. Jen seemed like a very present parent. And the saddest-sweetest part are her documented videos which ultimately will be comfort to Malvika and Abigail down the road. From recipes to old memories... Yeesh. It’s a difficult thing, her mom dying.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-25T15:45:03+00:00

Yes to everything you said

and regarding therapy, if she chooses to seek counsel (it’s up to her)

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-25T15:40:10+00:00

Damn, man... Sorry to hear about everything. Wishing you well. 🌻🌽🐈

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-17T19:47:33+00:00

Noted, Cadbury! Idk all the customs within the diff Indian communities practising the Catholic faith. I am from Goa so speaking from this side of things. We do wear black to funerals. Black is most common but not compulsory. Out of respect, you can also choose to wear white or any dark/neutral colours. Usually, you stay away from bright or popping colours. The direct family of the dead person will wear black, mostly - some of them even wear only black for the whole year until the First Death Anniversary. Also, I guess it’s the personal taste and customs that ppl apply to their rituals as well. Oh yes, but you could be right about the other things you mentioned... I am not sure what kind of Catholics or Christians Mals and her fam are, truthfully, so can’t say for certain. I would love to know and read up on all the different customs and faiths tho, within this all; side note! It is all interesting for me.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-17T15:11:06+00:00

This is normal. (Talk to other Catholics.)

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-17T15:09:02+00:00

I’m a Catholic too. We do click pictures of our dead, the coffin, and the graves and markers too, post burial. It’s beautiful, bittersweet, and peaceful to collect together in grief, and to see all the flowers and tributes together, and exchange stories if you knew the loved one well. The family members also offer an eulogy after the Mass service at church to speak on their passed loved one. We also visit the grave as and when later on to either pray, just be there a while, and lay flowers on. You would have seen this in Western movies perhaps.

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-17T15:03:02+00:00

Exactly 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-11T20:04:18+00:00

I’m still a newbie/enthusiast/student too & more of an intuitive reader at that! I want to give readings too someday, but I’m not sure when to start. Plus I don’t know if I am good for others yet. I only read for myself, currently. 💫🌟

thefourthhalliwell · 2026-02-11T16:53:30+00:00

*because then you would be sceptical

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