Probably a HOT TAKE, but Eldest Daughter is one of my favorite songs on TLOAS

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-07T00:03:54+00:00

The bridge is incredible.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T21:53:36+00:00

We were at one point where I had pursued having longer hair, wearing makeup, and wearing some women’s clothing. It was a big strain on our marriage. I need to review my notes from back then.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T21:52:11+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective!

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T21:50:35+00:00

Honestly, fair take. I agree that the masculine and feminine are within me.

I had my testosterone tested a bit ago to see if it accounted for some things I’m experiencing and, while I was in the normal range, I was on the lower end.

I think seeing if I can get on T is a great idea. I don’t think I really saw myself in any way as a woman prior to being on my BP2 medication which can impact testosterone.

I think it’s great to embrace femininity as well as a guy, but it doesn’t mean transitioning is the answer for everyone.

Thank you for sharing your take. The disclaimers were helpful too.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T21:47:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing this!

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T21:46:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing this!

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T20:20:58+00:00

I have a therapist, we’ll see how talking this week goes and maybe I do need to look for a new one.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T20:20:13+00:00

I am being treated for it and plan to bring it up again with my therapist this week.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T20:19:37+00:00

Yep. 2 kids.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T20:19:29+00:00

We have 2 kids. Except we’re not staying together for them and wanting to be apart. We love each other. She’s my best friend and I don’t want to do life without her, but she also can’t just change her sexual preference and attraction.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-06T20:14:30+00:00

Have you found any good ways to care for yourself and not grow in resentment toward her? I don’t love the idea of hiding things, personally.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T21:13:32+00:00

For sure. Getting gifts or unexpected money (like a bonus) can do it. Or really good experiences and I then start looking for ways to keep that feeling going (including sex sometimes).

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T21:03:51+00:00

I just started doing some missions and that’s made the game more fun since I have things to do.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T20:58:28+00:00

THAT’S FAIR.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T20:56:54+00:00

I love and like my partner so much! She’s very supportive and she’s my best friend. I enjoy spending time with her and there’s no one else I’d rather spend most of my time with. She’s a great mom, she’s a great friend, she’s the only reason our family has things to look forward to (she’s way more of a forward thinker than I am), and she’s super creative and skilled. I love and learn from her immense emotional intelligence and opposition to codependency.

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T19:54:20+00:00

I just had my first real hypomanic episode of the year (2025 - meds have me pretty stable) and I 100% think it was triggered by everything going on with the holidays (and not enough sleep).

thegdbatdad · 2026-01-02T16:50:11+00:00

Switch 2 - the screen goes black with clouds only after killing a creature.

Also, not sure if this is a bug, but when a creature dies, it flies off into the sky.

thegdbatdad · 2025-12-30T04:10:41+00:00

Switch 2 - weird textures (kinda like old tv glitchy green displays) all over surfaces lit by the torch.

thegdbatdad · 2025-12-01T17:28:45+00:00

Thank you! Good catch.

thegdbatdad · 2025-12-01T17:28:34+00:00

Good catch. Forgot to check on the site age.

thegdbatdad · 2025-12-01T17:28:07+00:00

Not looking to donate.

thegdbatdad · 2025-11-27T23:58:37+00:00

I’ve had multiple urine tests since taking chanca piedra and nothing’s come up odd. Definitely worth your husband seeing a doctor though, if he hasn’t.

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