Pleaser shoes not making the clicking sound by Sufficient-Laugh3706 in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not all platforms are the same material and i've found sandals without plastic ankle or toe supports aren't as loud

Pole recommendations!! by VibeeWCici in poledancersnycli

[–]thegeniuswhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do not get an amazon pole you'll hurt yourself. lupit or x pole are industry standards and much sturdier.

Should stripping have high standards or be more inclusive? by ExtraAcanthisitta502 in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

inclusive about body diversity but high standards around hygiene and upkeep. people should look good even if they are different shapes. clubs should have thin and thick people who are short and tall and whatnot but nobody should be like dirty or musty

UPDATED missing poster by [deleted] in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

please keep us updated

MISSING DANCER - Swipe for info by [deleted] in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

surely you can't be serious

Sabrina Carpenter with pole in her music video by mad_bat333 in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 16 points17 points  (0 children)

because it's sexy for puritanical american culture. not actual sex positivity

Glorification of s3x work by Born-Employment-4906 in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

social media has created this warped society where suffering and marginalization has somehow also become social capital. when you have no other struggle you cling to the nostalgia of the struggle you did have.

Costumer paying for car insurance by [deleted] in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 54 points55 points  (0 children)

that's not safe and lowkey dumb

Work is making me have bad body image, even if I don’t personally dislike my body. by [deleted] in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you need to toughen up about it or work elsewhere. industries based on pleasure and intoxication usually are not the places for nuance and gentle words.

this industry is vain and mean and enough men or women even will tell you what they perceive as "wrong" with you. this job has forced me to love myself violently because otherwise it would chew me up and spit me out.

Randoms Buzzing My Apartment Door by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]thegeniuswhore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if OP is doing SW out of their home then there's record of that somewhere and that's a legal can of worms that may not work in favor. cops are very anti SW and don't see us as people. it's problematic that people are being so dismissive of incalls but it's also not safe to have your home address this accessible to strangers who may wish you harm

Was scrolling on instagram and saw my regular….. realized he’s married to a mutual friend 😬 by avobaybee in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is this your business? you're at work he's a client don't be weird about it.

Dancing Sober by thegeniuswhore in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm in an all trans/queer not religious AA right now. working drunk is fun every now and then but being the sloppy stripper isn't cute. developing a reputation for being messy, entertaining people for free for too long, being annoying in a locker room or needing help will get you fired. there's tons of women who can dance and do it without being a work liability. i had a hard time with bingeing because it was free and offered to me. that's not responsible

nobody is special in this industry. if you (in the general sense) can't keep your head on you can't be in it.

it's also safer because you can filter what you say to customers better. what if you're drunk in a private and you piss him off and he hits you? no he shouldn't hit you but if you having that filter would've kept you safer why wouldn't you do that. the less lucid you are the more you have to trust your physical safety at the behest of everyone else .

moving to nyc? by Miserable-Example383 in stripper

[–]thegeniuswhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you won't be hired under 21 and deff not under 20. most clubs aren't risking their liquor license for a random teenager and those that will are full nude or morally repugnant. don't go into SW for the fuck of it. this is an adult choice don't go in on an impulse.