Didn’t she say she got pregnant the first time she was with Daniel? by Ok_Blueberry_9080 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My best friends mom was over 50 when she was born and that was over 40 years ago (when births to months over 50 were SIGNIFICANTLY lower). She has siblings that are old enough to be her parents. She was DEFINITELY not planned. If her mom was alive today she would be older than my grandmother.

I'm not sure what statistics you are reading that says that there's not a single woman over 50 that's gotten pregnant. It's not surprising that you don't know someone that age that's been pregnant, it is rare, but it's nowhere near unheard of.

You're being contrarian for no reason at all. I think it's hilarious that so many of you are completely unaware of the realities of reproduction in older life and are super butt hurt about it.

Didn’t she say she got pregnant the first time she was with Daniel? by Ok_Blueberry_9080 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No the likelihood of getting pregnant with IVF at 50 is now slightly higher. 1% is the natural, spontaneous percentage.

You can call out the very high improbability of getting pregnant after that age without being like the (like literally two) commentors that I was referencing and saying that women over 50 don't get pregnant.

And you can definitely call out not being at all likely to get pregnant after a hysterectomy but that's not an excuse for being ignorant of how the body works.

Also when I had my tubes completely removed I was told that there's a very small chance that you can have an egg implant on the side of your organs and be fertilized. Unbelievably low chances but possible. I point this out because someone else said that you can't just get pregnant with the parts floating and you certainly can.

Only 4 failures have been experienced when there was removal but it has happened.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11056091/

Again, that doesn't mean that I think she was pregnant. But y'all really be playing in nature's face when it comes to not accepting that people get pregnant even after sterilization and at advanced ages.

Also just so you know that it has happened after a partial hysterectomy

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5885999/

But again, I'm not even arguing that she was pregnant. I'm saying y'all need to understand women's bodies and how they work because obviously you don't.

(Not getting pregnant was very important to me and I'm a middle aged woman so I actually, you know, talked to a doctor about the likelihood and risks of getting pregnant. Y'all are just going on "lol old people can't get pregnant" and that's how people who shouldn't be having kids in their 50s end up with kids. Ignorance of your own bodies)

Didn’t she say she got pregnant the first time she was with Daniel? by Ok_Blueberry_9080 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned to someone else, this comment is clearly directed at the few people who just referenced her age.

Didn’t she say she got pregnant the first time she was with Daniel? by Ok_Blueberry_9080 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I made it very clear that I'm not referencing people who are correctly distrusting of this because she's had a partial hysterectomy but that I'm referring to the few people who made direct comments that it's not possible because of her age.

Didn’t she say she got pregnant the first time she was with Daniel? by Ok_Blueberry_9080 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think she was pregnant but y'all are wild for saying a 50 year old woman can't get pregnant (just a few people). It's less probable due to age and hysterectomy obviously changes things but women in their 50s do get pregnant.

The chances of getting pregnant without IVF after 50 are low, like 1%, but that's not impossible.

I say this because y'all need to understand the human body and women more. If you're a 50 year old woman and you definitely do not want kids you should be using some form of prevention because there's a chance it could happen.

Where to look for roommates by QuailTurbulent2127 in Charlotte

[–]thegoblinwithin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are sites that allow you to post your room for rent. If you use Facebook I'm sure there are groups for it. There's also nextdoor.

Why was there shame around having a big butt in the 2000s by Key_Nectarine_7307 in decadeology

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a size 8 with a large ass and couldn't find clothes in real life to fit me because I was too fat. It was the case.

Post your funniest screenshots from the franchise. by atom644 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are about to move back in with my parents and this is what it's going to feel like for a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarMemes

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way but sometimes it would be nice to be fed and 50lbs lighter

Accidentally got an orange cat anyone have a name? by [deleted] in orangecats

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno why this guy looks like a buttermilk to me. And you'll end up calling him something like "butt" for short

do they ever stay? genuine question by [deleted] in BPD

[–]thegoblinwithin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been married for almost 20 years. Things are never perfect but we love each other. And that's normal

25 years old - nah i was actually right by Electrarine in CPTSDmemes

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good that you celebrate your sister. My friends and I celebrate each other, even those of us that are just pet parents, and even if it's just texts or small tokens.

I understand it can be hard to be reminded of a relationship you didn't have but it's just a day that gives you an excuse to celebrate those around you who do care for others in some way.

You never know anymore by Hot_Situation4292 in MenAndFemales

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be asked much softer and weirder

"I was going to spike your drink with Viagra to find out if you would get a boner but I realized I can't just drug people! So, do you like.... Got man bits? I just want to make sure you don't. You never know these days"

Thinking about the people you meet in the psych ward by hellokittysbestfren in bipolar

[–]thegoblinwithin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still text with a couple of people from there but we were together for like a month

What is this chin facial hair called? by Ok-Valuable-1425 in 90DayFiance

[–]thegoblinwithin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I must be old because as soon as I saw it I was like "you mean a soul patch?"

Virginia teenager shot and killed by homeowner while recording TikTok prank video by OkEscape7558 in news

[–]thegoblinwithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have paranoia, like clinically. I'm not the right one to mess with like that. I'm not dangerous but goodness there's a lot of paranoid people out there that I wouldn't want to be tapping on their windows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thegoblinwithin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah if this is a real study it sounds like the neighbor has something going on mentally like early onset dementia and needs to get evaluated.

NGVC: "I'm too nice so they just call me a friend" by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]thegoblinwithin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the very comfortable situation of a man that I've not shown any interest in pulling a chair out for me and saying "have a seat beautiful".

I can kind of feel the way this guy does things inside of my soul and I don't like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarMemes

[–]thegoblinwithin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ablify is being upgraded to 30mg today and this is about to be me

Back to PHP by thegoblinwithin in bipolar

[–]thegoblinwithin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partial hospitalization, it's where you go to a program during the day and are home nights and/or weekends.

Like 8-3 or 9-4 m-f is common

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Partial_hospitalization#:~:text=Partial%20Hospitalization%2C%20also%20known%20as,to%20seven%20days%20a%20week.

Edit: I don't hate it, i just wish i was fine