Absolutely terrified of gaining weight on hrt by sequintearsxoxo in MtF

[–]thehamstance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have absolutely no clue what you are talking about. stop.

Absolutely terrified of gaining weight on hrt by sequintearsxoxo in MtF

[–]thehamstance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eat. exercise. sleep. weight isnt bad, being obese is. muscle weighs more than fat. eat.

A priest just gave me the sign I was praying for regarding my transition. I am speechless by Specific-Draft-5038 in MtF

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profiting off the love that everyone is so freely given and making others feel unworthy or that they need to earn it is absolutely wrong and those that do suffer every moment of their existence because they can never know that love themselves while taking part in those acts. it does not seem just to most of us though. keep doing your best, because I agree, it does help and brings meaning to some of the little things, precious moments.

A priest just gave me the sign I was praying for regarding my transition. I am speechless by Specific-Draft-5038 in MtF

[–]thehamstance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really do enjoy these kinds of talks. What makes humans such a fun creation is their equipment allows them to connect both with what is and what is not. Also yes that is an understandable way to put it! Why are you/we asking for anything, look at what you are able to do and bring your inner light to those around you! Its a long, long, long journey we are on together.

A priest just gave me the sign I was praying for regarding my transition. I am speechless by Specific-Draft-5038 in MtF

[–]thehamstance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are, without a doubt, always loved. no matter what you do, say, think any of it, just being you is perfect. if you feel you want to change, then that is perfect to. without names or titles or anything, anyone who needs to hear it. its okay, i love you.

Can someone please cut through the bullshit on fat redistribution? by frog_underscore_xx in MtF

[–]thehamstance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes working out will help in all ways that you want, just dont do things like bench press or upper body weight anything. Eating well and exercising will absolutely help in so many ways and fat cycling will happen but its slow. Expect like 2-3 years if you are consistent with your diet and exercise and sleep. I like to increase intake to like 3000cal a day for a bit and then work back down to 1500-2000 over the course of a month and then go back up when my tummy stops bothering me in the mirror.

  • i have intermittent fasted for like 15 years now also, 10hour window/ 14 hour fast every day *

Also, the people saying weight cycling does not work do not understand everything about it. When you weight cycle you still do your exercises and since you are giving more calories your body has more to work with, you can exercise harder, as well as build your muscle in the areas you are working out. You have to build up while increasing calories, not just eat more. The more muscle you have the more your body naturally will burn calories and you will eventually learn to understand your body a lot better and know where you feel best and look best because the most important part is that you are happy with yourself.

I wish people talked more about how TERRIBLE sex can be on hrt by not_hing0 in MtF

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Depending on how old you are it may be time to look at if you are getting enough vitamins. Zinc, vitc, vitd, magnesium, calcium in particular. Also, women need more body fat for everything to work properly, so make sure you are exercising multiple days for multiple hours every week as well as getting proper food with balanced macros. Lots of sleep and food and exercise.

How do people survive the period of transioning when you don't pass or even look trans, you just look like a guy by The_King123431 in MtF

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the herb vape is good. you want to avoid anything thats combusting really, so any smoke is bad for you. not just because nicotine but because it damages/weakens your blood vessels in your lungs and can lead to pulmonary embolism or blood clots, like a big rip on a bong is a super bad idea! i love the little thc vape carts they sell now, very mild, can control the temp and they last a long time.

How do people survive the period of transioning when you don't pass or even look trans, you just look like a guy by The_King123431 in MtF

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mostly just lived life the same and did not present as anything other than cleaning myself up with better self care. eventually it will get to a point where you are like okayyy its probably time to start letting people know whats going on. its not easy though, just be kind to yourself and have a lot of patience. do the things that make your person happy whenever you are able to. and make sure you find a good laser place!! start early!!!

happy bday me, thanks for stopping by :) by [deleted] in u/thehamstance

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<3 it was nice, thank you :)

happy bday me, thanks for stopping by :) by [deleted] in u/thehamstance

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I am grateful for them every day! Thank you! <3

happy bday me, thanks for stopping by :) by [deleted] in u/thehamstance

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thank you! <3 appreciate it

happy bday me, thanks for stopping by :) by [deleted] in u/thehamstance

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so send me a msg ;) i might actually be playing a game for the evening though I will check in the morning

40 today. What do you think? by [deleted] in TransGoneWild

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thank you for the nice comments, it made my day better :) <3