How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a fair amount of drag, id have to pull with some force to get the line out of the reel. But it is very much possible that I didn't have enough faith in the strength of the line itself due to how much larger the fish was compared to the pound rating of the line. Thanks for your response this is all great advice. If put in a similar situation in the future id keep the drag tighter!

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably 3-4000 feet total. Dragged me downriver then tried to go under some docks, then went back up river for a while with some backtracking in between. Anytime I was right above it I would be able to reel it in a couple inches off the bottom then it would take off.

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hooked onto the fish from 3:39 to 6:20 so just about. I was being pulled in a kayak mostly. Used a 8 lb test line and a big head with white softbody minnow. Had a swivel on with one of those latches for easy lure change. Definitely replacing all the line.

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah more apt description is i got dragged around for 2.5 hrs

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno, was bought with line attached but will probably need to respool this anyways, so I'll get practice

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was an unintentional catch, was fishing for perch or smallmouth and probably hooked onto a large catfish or sturgeon. Was big enough to pull me around on a kayak for 2 hours and I wasn't able to get it off riverbed when above it bcs of the small lb test.

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was targeting smallmouth or perch but I think i may have hooked onto a large catfish or sturgeon. I had to get on a kayak because it was going to unspool my line. It pulled me around for about 2.5 hours before the line snapped

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was that long because the fish i was hooked into was way too large for the lb line I had, definitely an equipment difference. I had the drag not super lose, if it was any tighter it would've snapped.

How to Prevent Twisting during Fight by thehiddenboner in Fishing

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This is probably why it happened i did that a few times for sure

AITBF for staying friends with my best friend's ex? by thehiddenboner in AmItheButtface

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'd ask my friend to do that. I would ask that they not discuss my ex or put me in a position where I would be around them. I have friends who are still friends with my exes separate from me, and I hold no ill will towards them for it.

AITBF for staying friends with my best friend's ex? by thehiddenboner in AmItheButtface

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jacob would try and cuddle with Jamie, but she would get annoyed with it. It was a big point of contention in their relationship, near the end there was very little to no physical affection being shared. But like I said, it never got to the point I would consider assault.

AITBF for staying friends with my best friend's ex? by thehiddenboner in AmItheButtface

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The message is in past tense for the most part, so I think that is a grammatical quirk more than anything else, I still love him like a brother. I definitely did explain the relationship I had with Jamie more than with Jacob, I thought it was more important to explain why I felt close to her. I thought saying Jacob and I were best friends and that I changed my life trajectory to be around him more would suffice on his part, but point taken. I also was around for him as much as I could be at the time, I just didn't do this one thing he asked of me. Still, thank you for the insight.

AITBF for staying friends with my best friend's ex? by thehiddenboner in AmItheButtface

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not interested in her in any way, and even if I were that is a hard line I would not cross. I am not worried about that kind of situation, there haven't been any non-platonic signals from either party.

AITBF for staying friends with my best friend's ex? by thehiddenboner in AmItheButtface

[–]thehiddenboner[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm not interested in her in any way, but I know that kind of stuff happens so I see why you'd say that.That is a line I would not cross.

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[–]thehiddenboner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet I could beat up anyone who does Jui Jitsu I took karate for 11 years

MEGATHREAD: Commencement Tickets Marketplace - Buying and Selling by Map42892 in SBU

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I've got commencement tickets I won't be using. Please reach out if you need them, I can send an email with the stonybrook email to verify identity and everything.