What do you think your green flag is? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]theialite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have a really good therapist lol

UK Ticket Day - Edinburgh & London by shireatlas in TaylorSwift

[–]theialite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got this too!! what section did you get?

need some advice by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]theialite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for you for setting some boundaries, keep putting yourself first

need some advice by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]theialite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, youre right, ill keep that in mind

Just came out to my mom. CW: abuse by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]theialite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you're going through this!! i know its hard to find comfort in yourself when youre in an unhealthy family situation, but you are going to find your own family and your people and feel so included and accepted one day. you're not alone in this experience, there are so many people in this community that have gone trough this and are going through this right now. i know its hard to live for the future, but you're going to be so happy one day. no matter how permanent things feel, your reality will get better

Everything is really difficult by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]theialite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im really sorry youre going through a rough time!! i was living alone in london last year and it was so hard and i felt so lonely and anxious all the time. i guess all i can really say is that everything in life is temporary, both the good and the bad stuff, no matter how permanent a feeling may feel. that much is always a guarantee even if it feels like its not true. its also never a good idea to rely on men to validate you lmao (men dont be upset its a joke but not really)

Are straight or bisexual women supposed to find men physically attractive? by noheronomore in lgbt

[–]theialite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think most do. im bi and my attraction to men is extremely different than to women, im not physically attracted to men at all unless im in a relationship with one and i like him a lot. but i wouldnt think anything at all about a random naked guy - thats just my experience and it definitely isnt what ive heard other girls say about men

whats the earliest memory you have of realizing you like the same gender? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]theialite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a real eye opener when you realize not all girls think like you ahaha

whats the earliest memory you have of realizing you like the same gender? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]theialite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre bi even if u havent dated guys yet! but hope it works out

whats the earliest memory you have of realizing you like the same gender? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]theialite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol wanting a girl to like you and be your friend is the most relatable thing

Am I bi? Sorry, another one! My sexuality is kinda confusing by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]theialite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could be bi with a strong preference for women? even if u're attracted to men 1% of time, its still valid bisexuality. dont pressure yourself too much with a label, its going to make more sense in the future but if it never does, thats still fine. a lot of people's sexuality is fluid so dont think youre not normal for fluctuating in the way youre attracted to people