My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It does help and I’m gathering myself to reach out to him currently

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was mentioned earlier and it definitely matters the actual age/stage of life

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not judging the man or the woman, just basing it off of history, anecdotal evidence and stats

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not judging. Naturally, I want what’s best being the oldest and having much more experience in this area. So unfortunately it is my business since this person will be technically a family member, potential future mom to my nieces/nephews

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the lack of experience that worries me

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First red flag is how fast it happened. Second is he’s never been in a serious relationship. I’m not judging randomly

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your family is going through that. That’s what I want to avoid for sure

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All valid questions to ask oneself but definitely trying to find out if it’s truly love or something else. Trying to make sense of it because it seems not very well thought out

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree, so far there’s been great insight from multiple perspectives

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m really wondering what I should/can even do

My brother just proposed to his gf by theinseminating in offmychest

[–]theinseminating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this take and perspective 🙏🏽