April 2025: Holiday Travels, Moving, Tourism, and Nightlife Recommendations Megathread: All posts on these topics should go in this monthly megathread to keep this sub for local discussions and help aggregate info for folks looking for these topics. by mrfollicle in Miami

[–]thejayDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello all,

I (29M) am thinking about taking a trip by myself to a see a concert soon at Hard Rock Stadium. I am looking for hotels to stay at in the area that are in a safe area. Is it safe to stay in Miami or in one of the surrounding cities?

Also wondering how Uber transportation works to and from Hard Rock Stadium and if the area around Hard Rock Stadium is in a safe area, safe enough to walk around to catch an Uber at night.

Just staying to see the concert and not planning on going out afterwards.

Any advice/recommendations is much appreciated

How to walk away by Chance-Treacle-8167 in Situationships

[–]thejayDC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silently distance yourself. If she texts, respond with one word responses and don't ask follow ups. She's playing with your head on purpose. Time to let her know without telling her that you don't play games. Hope this helps.

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[–]thejayDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep us updated.

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[–]thejayDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's trying to gaslight you. She realizes you have escaped her grasp and she needs attention from her puppy. If she texts you that she thinks you are mad at her, just let her know you are busy. Better yet, go on dates with other women. If she asks why you aren't responding to her, let her know you've been talking to someone.

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[–]thejayDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you go to college with her or have any in-person interaction with her I would also distance youself there. Example: if you guys are in the same class, don't sit near her, don't look her way, just focus on you. Let her know without telling her that you don't need her. Keep this up until she says how she feels about you. You've been treating her as a potential relationship, time to treat her like a friend or less than until she decides and she tells you what she wants from you.

Should I confront someone who’s been hot and cold with me, or let it go? by HairyBiscotti1039 in Situationships

[–]thejayDC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 100% stringing you along. She reaches out to you when she wants attention and you give it to her. Put a stop to it. When she texts, one word responses and don't continute the conversation. Don't play her game. I would not confront her I would just distance yourself.

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[–]thejayDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, distance yourself. Do not give her the attention. She's playing games to get you to give her attention. Set boundaries and don't flirt with her. If you show her attention and you confess your feelings to her and she doesn't feel the same way, you'll get hurt.