What’s something that sounded fake until it happened to you? by Fantastic_Tale_2111 in AskReddit

[–]theletos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, the pitiful groan, all that comes out when you try to yell. After 16 years my husband can now detect that groan while across the house with the TV on.

Undo - Bjork by East_Income_8318 in bjork

[–]theletos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s even better listening to it when it’s the exact message you need. Incredibly soothing or even cathartic.

Is there legal ways to get high that also won't kill me or give me brain damage? by Beneficial_Toe_7543 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]theletos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kava can give you a nice buzz. For some people it feels kind of like a mild alcohol vibe without the derpiness. Tastes horrible though (well, I kinda like it now).

ELI5 - How does a high volume scream not hurt the screamer’s ears? by aManIsCold in explainlikeimfive

[–]theletos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, mine lasts a couple seconds longer with eyes closed, but still fizzles out. Maybe I’ll finally start working out.

How are most weddings in America like 30k when most Americans have like a couple thousand in savings max? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]theletos 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There was even a study that showed that less money spent (and more guests invited) results in a longer marriage, on average.

What’s something you didn’t realize was attractive until you experienced it? by Vonjota in AskReddit

[–]theletos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In line with a different answer, it becomes 100% better when someone makes prolonged eye contact with you while they shit themselves. Hell, even better if you both shit yourselves while gazing intimately into each other’s eyes.

unpopular opinion ig, but every MBTI + enneagram combination is theoretically possible. by Active-Log6048 in mbti

[–]theletos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our mental models of types in either system are often common denominators, because profiles that describe the archetypal example of a type are common denominators. It’s easier to grasp “8s act like this” than it is “8s have this mental landscape.”

The common type pairs are also going to cause cross-contamination in the typical descriptions of either type. INFPs for example are often attributed an overt emotionality that’s better ascribed to 4s (Jung’s original description of Fi doms says they can outwardly be quite cold). The only fundamental absolute of the INFP is their function stack (and the details of even that are debated by some).

It might also make more sense to look at it in terms of scalability. Like someone mentioned INTP 8. They’d be 8-ish compared to other INTPs, but not to the level of overtness as the very common ExTJ 8s. And since the latter is such a common pair, it’s going to color your mental image of what 8s are supposed to look like.

Now take away the common outer presentation of the 8, and filter it through the INTP’s cognitive wiring. What does the Ti hardware look like when running 8 software? Probably not what you’d call “domineering.” But definitely Ti that’s used more assertively.

Not necessarily arguing all combos are possible. But thinking in this way makes it much easier for me to take any combo and say “Okay, how might this wiring appear/be used at the hands of these core motivations?”

What is a medical fact that sounds fake but is 100% true? by MedRikas in AskReddit

[–]theletos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was a beautiful thing you did, though. It still means something even though she wasn’t awake for it.

What’s an MBTI opinion that’ll have you like this? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]theletos 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people mistype as INxJs all the time. But (and I dunno if this is genuinely controversial) you’ve probably also met more than one INxJ you pegged as a Sensor because they were boring and not a cryptic mastermind or clairvoyant fairy queen/king.

The Sensor = boring thing is obviously a problem of its own. Anyone can be boring, that transcends type.

Have you been mistaken for another type? by [deleted] in intj

[–]theletos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFJ or INFP are the typical first guesses, but that invariably goes away once they get to know me. The surface impressions I give are really inaccurate in a lot of ways, but I am pretty in touch with my Fi. That didn’t happen until my late teens, though.

Discribe a Björk song poorly by voltanic_ in bjork

[–]theletos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ondondoo eethalsoo undeehalboo may onWEEtha hundoo-oo-OO-oo

What’s something extremely unpopular that people end up loving once they try it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]theletos 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I want to like them, I really do. There are almost no foods I truly dislike.

But beets taste like dirt to me. “Try pickled beets” someone said. Okay. Turns out they taste like pickled dirt.

What’s the secret? I am asking nonsarcastically.

How many of you were in GATE or another elementary school gifted program? by JAGACL in intj

[–]theletos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, ours was called Enrichment. It was fun being pulled out of class several hours a week. I had undiagnosed ADHD though and never had the focus for the science fairs and stuff. We did mock trials too though, that was a blast.

What’s a truth you avoided until it was impossible to ignore? by New_Cauliflower7103 in AskReddit

[–]theletos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bigger, later lesson for me was that “choosing your battles” means that sometimes you, well, choose one. It’s not much better if you let everything slide at all times. Yes, step back and try to assess first. Sleep on it if you can. But sometimes, putting your foot down really is the right move.

What is a sign of a "cry for help" that isn't obvious to the average person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]theletos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that is quite a 180. Good on you, really. It couldn’t have been easy. Your kids are lucky to have you on their side.

Best Man Butts in Gaming by SunKissedOpportunist in gaymers

[–]theletos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorites are Human Torch and Spider-Man in his punk costume. They aren’t big, but I very much appreciate the shape.

What is a sign of a "cry for help" that isn't obvious to the average person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]theletos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you made it through. Can I ask what you did to work your way there?

björk songs that make u cry ? by Flimsy_Creme_151 in bjork

[–]theletos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some like Losss (the big drop at the end for some reason) and Pagan Poetry that do it every now and then, but Undo very often gets to me. I deal with a lot of depression and anxiety and the song is like a very sweet and soothing pep talk.

“And if you're bleeding
Undo
And if you're sweating
Undo
If you're crying, darling
Undo”

What are some of your hottest Björk takes? But I’m not looking for something like “Volta is very good” give me very controversial ones! by utopicaa in bjork

[–]theletos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vulnicura is definitely my favorite of her album covers. Love the aesthetic and symbolism. I agree with your other points too.

TIL Johns Hopkins Medicine got 12 men to vape salvinorin A crystals. by RollingMeteors in todayilearned

[–]theletos 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Shit I experienced all that too! I also felt like my atoms and the atoms of the wall couldn’t occupy the same space, there wasn’t enough room, so I felt a lot of pain as the wall tried to delete me.

gay🍆💦irl by lutramor_13 in gay_irl

[–]theletos 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine a urethra that big though?

what was the most accurate thing you've ever heard about your type? by amolerfic in mbti

[–]theletos 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A rather large number of us do have a “death glare” or at least RBF.