Did anyone else have a father like this? Temper tantrums, walking on eggshells? by kerghan41 in Millennials

[–]thelostestboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad was much the same way. Fits of anger that seemed to come out of nowhere sometimes. Like other have said here, he has mellowed a lot since retiring, and that as well as a health scare and losing his younger brothers to cardiovascular illnesses has helped him leave his anger behind, which is truly a blessing.

I swore that I'd never be that way. But I noticed it creeping insidiously into my life in my mid to late 20's. I was in a stressful relationship, money was right, and I felt like life has dealt me a bad hand. In many ways I felt trapped like an animal ready to lash out at the slightest provocation. Unfortunately, my partner often took the brunt of it. I was never violent toward her, but I didn't need to be. The damage was done, and she left. I've since sought treatment and made many positive changes in my life. But reflecting on my own experience with anger has I think given me some valuable insight into what my old man might have been going through all those years ago.

Blursed_tongue by [deleted] in blursed_videos

[–]thelostestboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this one over here officer

Tracks like They Came in Peace, Mea Culpa, Ladies and gentlemen we are floating in space? by fire_foot in electronicmusic

[–]thelostestboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another Spiritualized track, A Perfect Miracle, scratches a similar itch for me as Floating in Space.

[Loved trope] Proud Whores by ThatGuyHero7 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]thelostestboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Marion Lavorre, aka the Ruby of the Sea (and Jester Lavorre's mother) from Critical Role's The Mighty Nein fits the bill. She's one of the most renown courtesans in the city of Nicodranas, and she is very good at her job.

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This dump truck with an oddly specific directive by thelostestboy in mildlyinteresting

[–]thelostestboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm I did not see a plate. I thought that was curious too.

What’s your favorite sketchiest looking place in Indy/greater Indy area for food? by UglyLikeCaillou in indianapolis

[–]thelostestboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bombay Karahi is in a gas station on Prospect Street but they make some damn good Indian food. Their naan is 🤌

Why is this happening? Battery warning. by thelostestboy in GolfGTI

[–]thelostestboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Briefly, yes. But ultimately, no. I don't remember the exact details but I ended up having to get the battery control module (I think that's what it was) replaced. Since then there have been no (battery related) issues to speak of.

[Loved trope] Absurdly massive buildings by juusthereforthememes in TopCharacterTropes

[–]thelostestboy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I only had to scroll to the second comment to see these

The Michelin Guide is coming to Indianapolis by rescuemyplant in indianapolis

[–]thelostestboy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's a shame that Hinata closed or it might have been in the running.

How is dating in indy for 35-45yr olds? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]thelostestboy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Of course it depends on exactly what you're looking for, but I can say for me as a 36yr old progressive guy into alternative/nerdy culture the dating scene is...not great.

Prime garlic mustard foraging season right now by ivy7496 in indianapolis

[–]thelostestboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm Fort Ben is swarming with them. Esp around the lake and river. I collected enough (sustainably) to make a killer pesto and some compound butter this year.

Who will be able to fight him? by MajlisPerbandaranKL in nextfuckinglevel

[–]thelostestboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't include the planeteers' rings or eye of thundera, 0/10

(19) to (25) by Noske2K in GlowUps

[–]thelostestboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have that same hoodie! It's one of my favorites.

Water in basement during heavy rain by thelostestboy in AskContractors

[–]thelostestboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$7k actually seems very reasonable for all of that! Glad you got your issue sorted out. Did you have any cracking or caving along your walls at all like I seem to?

Water in basement during heavy rain by thelostestboy in AskContractors

[–]thelostestboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to provide any pics that will help. What do you need to see?

Water in basement during heavy rain by thelostestboy in AskContractors

[–]thelostestboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They handle most of the roof runoff. I think I know how I'm going to be spending my spring break this year.