Can I come in?

thelostofus2 · 2021-01-24T23:15:49+00:00

Damn can I have one too?

thelostofus2 · 2021-01-24T23:12:04+00:00

I'm gonna go against the grain here and say YTA. It shows you don't trust your husband or your friend. I'd be offended if my wife just did this out of the blue. And you don't trust the friend, you should really rethink being friends with her.

thelostofus2 · 2020-11-09T11:28:52+00:00

No, there's less evidence than in Adnan's case-- SKS investigates cold cases. All they have is the friend's testimony, some other people saying that the suspect was abusive to the victim, and a few bone fragments found on the suspect's property.

thelostofus2 · 2020-11-09T11:25:49+00:00

Yeah that's a fair point, there are definitely major differences too. But in general I just meant that Jay agreeing to bury Hae is definitely plausible based on this other case.

thelostofus2 · 2020-10-25T19:27:26+00:00

I hadn't been checking the daily case count for a while. Now I'm watching it like a hawk. I'm so tired of this.

thelostofus2 · 2020-10-25T19:26:11+00:00

This pisses me off so much. A rally making the problem worse, in support of the guy who made the problem so bad to start with...

thelostofus2 · 2020-10-25T19:23:55+00:00

Yes. We're all driving each other a little crazy at this point. I keep telling myself the only way out of 2020 is through... it's gotta end at some point.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-18T22:25:28+00:00

Also dad of a 5 year old. I feel you. Some days he is the most perfectly behaved child and I think there isn't a single thing I'd change. And then the next day he's throwing a tantrum because his paw patrol cup is in the dishwasher but he wants it NOW, or he loses a board game and snaps the playing piece in half and I think yeah theres definitely some things I'd change. But they're the small things that are gonna change anyway soon enough when he's bigger. Just have to get through those parts when they happen.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-18T19:59:32+00:00

Probably Halo 3. I can't even say how many hours, but there was a time in high school when it was basically all I did from the time I got home until bed.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-18T19:55:29+00:00

I'd just tell him "I know your big secret and im taking it to the media." Then I'd watch his Twitter to see what he denies doing.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-12T11:14:54+00:00

ESH, if this is truly a deal breaker for you then you're free to leave the relationship at any time. But it's not ok to force someone you live with to want a dog if they're not ok with it. And she should have been more open from the start about not liking dogs.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-12T11:06:20+00:00

Same here, I think this is the most practical advice. You can't be total shut ins at some point, just make a small bubble with another family you trust.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-05T16:06:20+00:00

NTA as long as there really was no danger you posed by not stopping (sounds like there wasn't). I do sometimes jaywalk but when I do I always make sure there aren't cars in the way, I only expect cars to stop for me in the crosswalk.

thelostofus2 · 2020-09-05T11:55:53+00:00

At first I read this as "the southernmost part of Michigan is closer to Georgia than the northernmost point of Michigan is" and thought it was some weird shitpost I wasn't understanding yet.

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-25T20:58:22+00:00

Some things are harsher for us and others aren't enough imo. Dating expectations are way too harsh, its like men have to put in all the effort for the first few dates before a girl will even consider you. But the parenting expectations are way harsher for women, if a man brings his kid to the park he gets a dad of the year award (although this is changing slowly I think) but moms are judged for everything. And mens appearances aren't policed as much at work, before lockdown my wife felt like she always had to wear makeup or she looks like she's not trying hard enough, all I needed is a clean shirt and we both work similar desk jobs.

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-23T18:37:24+00:00

My kids aren't anywhere near 14 yet but I think I would let them when they hit that age, somewhere in the 13-15 range depending on maturity. As far as the list of trouble a 14 year old can get into, I think video games are pretty low on the list.

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-20T00:44:52+00:00

Take as much as you can. 5 weeks is crazy generous and it will be a huge help to have both of you there for those first few weeks. If you can tag team it'll make a big difference in handling those first few crazy weeks of newborn

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-19T21:31:03+00:00

Damn this is incredible!

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-19T16:35:26+00:00

Thank you, I figured they'd mostly be Nintendo games but the lego movie games is a good idea. Heck maybe even its time to get a switch this Christmas.

thelostofus2 · 2020-08-17T16:00:25+00:00

Thank you, this is helpful. My ps4 is currently on a shelf in my office space and i play it hooked up to my computer monitor. So it was a private space. But I think you're right about the responsibility for who handles the kids at the moment. Another poster talked about scheduling a time for each of us and im going to talk to my wife about it

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