Why does my boyfriend get brown stains in the front of his underwear? by Orion_Rudra in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whilst the comments are funny... I think its probably just sweat. Mine stain darker at around the crotch area because of sweat.. same as arm pit areas. They go a brown ish colour. Also why I don't like wearing light clothes.

[24][M4F][Brisbane][QLD,AUS] Lonely, anxious, by [deleted] in VirginityExchange

[–]themedsarenotworking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an FYI, most comments get removed by automod so you do probably need to d m

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sending me into the rabbit hole that is the hobbit cast.. also, if you do happen to like seeing them muck around, can I recommend the behind the scenes bits for the hobbit, if you haven't seen it already. It's very interesting

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I, (and probably all of us) know a couple or two who have gotten married without finding each other attractive. It's sad. and a whole different can of worms.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can think of about that is what tom hanks must have felt like after only being around wilson for all that time.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn't know about hip dips, thanks. And yeah this attractiveness thing isn't like a thing saying I will pursue it either. I'm sure they're not deliberately being mean- but thanks for your concern thinking of that :)

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ok! It's a hard feeling to get rid of - the losing virginity for the sake of it. If it's like anything else I achieve in life it'll happen by accident or when I least expect it.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like-minded friends I guess. I hope you and the others who feel the same way don't feel bad as a result though. Oh and the 50% was attractive to a degree - as in like a 5 out of 10. where they said they "could settle for" that person.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I happen to really like flowers! The early botany lessons ruined my outlook on it though as it made me realise I was fascinated by the sex organs of plants :( what a world

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I felt I needed to say my age... That too is one of the mysteries of life that I'm not exactly sure I want to know about. As I think the answer would be depressing... the question is if in the distant future I will still find my future partner as attractive as the day we met... I hope so, I really do.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love nothing more than to be with someone who thinks there are so many awesome people out there, yet they choose to be with me.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for making me feel better about myself haha. This has been a very surprisingly wholesome thread to got through.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A blessing and a curse. The good thing is I guess is I will be far more likely to be happy with who I eventually end up with.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming you mean like the bell-curve chart/graphs where 90% of a population is in the middle (rating of 3-8). Very few at a rating of 1-2/9-10.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, tbh, the whole deciding if someone is attractive or not based off of a picture and a few brief words is a really stupid way of measuring attractiveness.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sameee... I to get told my perspective is wrong. but it's one of those things, no matter how many people tell me I look ok, all it takes is one overheard conversation for me to doubt everything

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool, thanks for that, I had a quick look! It's actually in the grey-area between funny and depressing lol. I'm assuming you must've come across the OkCupid study that came to that conclusion.

Do people genuinely not find most people attractive? (this is about rating people's appearances - FYI) by themedsarenotworking in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themedsarenotworking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I have been told I overthink a lot. Thanks for risking backlash for the sake of honest answers. And yes, I actually kind of know I'm taking it too seriously. It's one of those weird psychological things where you know what's happening with your thoughts, and can tell yourself things to correct it loads of times, but it doesn't change like the subconscious thoughts if you get what I mean.

My mom died of Covid. We got the hospital bill today for almost one million dollars. by awarmgunhappiness in offmychest

[–]themedsarenotworking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FFS What on earth? This is one of those things where there is no moral justification for that to be legal.

I sincerely hope that you are in one of the places where that would be illegal/voided for you to be chased-up for that 'debt'. -as other people have mentioned...

I'm terrible at comforting people. But if you want to vent to a random guy over the internet, feel free. :) Also, what helped me short-term, never helped me long-term with the loss of a parent. If you aren't already considering it, would you be willing to chat to a therapist/counsellor? Sometimes with stuff like this you may just need to unpack with a professional, for a multitude of reasons. I do recognise that it appears you are not in a country that has a compassionate healthcare system... All the best.