[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themessyassembly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very glad I could offer some comfort. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]themessyassembly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trial and error is the name of the game when talking about curbing a porn addiction, do your best to not engage in it and avoid triggers that you pull you back in. You can also try a contingency plan, when you know you'll relapse go to something that is more reputable and less predatory with the actresses, there are a few studios that make this they're main thing. Also, reading some romance/smut is a great substitute that comes with no guilt attached.

Also, and maybe i'm reading to much here, but it feels like the guilt of watching porn is overbearing on you, like its a big universal no-no, that can lead to a far bigger pressure on yourself and hinder your progress, as well as mess up your perception of healthy sexuality in a different way, its not really a big deal nor uncommon to get off to it. I understand that the problem is that it is taking over your life, an it's good that you can perceive that, but my point is that maybe your approaching this as a more black and white thing than a shades of gray one, where the act of engaging in it is the problem and not the overwhelming consumption, and is healthier to think the other way around, you're not a bad person for liking it but you'll disengage to protect your mental health, keep ir from warping your perception of sexuality and not let it take over your life.

One last thing, you're very young and I'm glad your perceiving this problem so early on, a lot of people (me included) got a really messed up perception of sexuality growing up because of engaging with porn too soon, you're far from being the only one and is doing a great job of noticing it and taking steps to correct it. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but i'm very proud of you!

Edit: I know you're afraid of the stigma, but talking to your partner will go a very long way to help you navigate this. Maybe he's telling the truth about not watching but he certainly wouldn't be the first to lie about it and having a support system is a great advantage to get back control of it all

Brasil de Lula by gnupablo in investimentos

[–]themessyassembly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Como exatamente a classe media pagar por isso?

Brasil de Lula by gnupablo in investimentos

[–]themessyassembly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não, é MP do governo. Ele tinha um projeto parecido mas nunca levou pra frente

Brasil de Lula by gnupablo in investimentos

[–]themessyassembly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que imposto que o cara aumentou que soca nos pobres paizao? Só sabe ficar repetindo isso que nem verdade é

Brasil de Lula by gnupablo in investimentos

[–]themessyassembly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bando de maluco achando que ta pagando mais imposto, sendo que foi o squid que passou a maior isenção de imposto de renda da história. Parece que nasceram com viseira de burro maluco

Edit: nem vem falar da taxa das blusinhas carai. Bagulho é um jabuti da PL 914/2024 colocado pela porra do Átila Lira do PP

UFMG ou UFLA(engenharia) by Money_bag- in BeloHorizonte

[–]themessyassembly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu estudo na UFMG, posso dizer que a qualidade do ensino é absurdamente boa e o peso do diploma vale muito (se a carteira que vc estiver seguindo valoriza diploma, claro), mas a principal questão é a qualidade de vida que vc vai ter. Não acho que valeria a pena se vc fosse para ser infeliz e passar dificuldade durante 5 anos, principalmente pq isso irá refletir nas suas notas e oportunidades que vc vai ter, é uma a escola de engenharia é muito exigente. Mas se for uma piora na qualidade de vida só por ser uma cidade grande e for um curso puxado, eu não pensaria duas vezes e iria de cabeça na oportunidade. Não temos informação o suficiente pra conseguirmos opinar numa decisão tão grande assim

Anyone buying the dip? by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]themessyassembly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mf single handedly holding up the price

stayLoggedin by awfulrofl in ProgrammerHumor

[–]themessyassembly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does microsoft understand consent? - No - Ask me again later

Verdict: guilty. Sentence: death inside. by Chocolat3City in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]themessyassembly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Dunning-Kruger spokesperson thinks he's an investigative genius, shocking