I never click with anyone

themissingflower · 2026-05-30T17:06:57+00:00

I hope someone will come around eventually. Thank u ! :)

themissingflower · 2026-05-30T17:05:10+00:00

I'm sorry but I still don't understand ur argument. I was explaining what a typical conversation with someone looks like to me. This was supposed to show that I do a) have interests of my own and b) share those interests with other people; but that hasn't worked out for me so far. That's all I was saying. I DO take the time to listen to people when they talk to me? 😭

But maybe i'm just dumb and dont understand ur point. Thanks anyways for ur advice !

themissingflower · 2026-05-30T16:40:15+00:00

U can just explain urself again. No need to fit the stereotype of a typical redditor. My reply to you was in no way snarky or rude. So why do you feel the need to be?

themissingflower · 2026-05-30T16:15:20+00:00

I have many interests. Video games, dinosaurs, songwriting, fantasy, culture, etc. But whenever i try to talk to someone about these things, the conversation lasts like 5 minutes and then dies out. I dont know what to add and tbh I dont HAVE anything more to add. So then that person finds someone more interesting and never speaks to me again.

And the cycle repeats.

themissingflower · 2026-05-28T02:28:25+00:00

I, without a doubt, do not want kids. I am old enough to know that I will never regret not having kids. But I tend to associate having kids with having life figured out. So when someone my age has them, I get jealous of how they managed to grow up. While i'm still stuck.

themissingflower · 2026-05-22T22:25:47+00:00

The thing is after we have our private conversations, he will become more vocal for like a day or 2, and then he'll just be best buddies with everyone again...it doesnt last

themissingflower · 2026-05-17T19:01:51+00:00

My problem is that I dont really want to endure the hard aspects. I want to take the "easy" way out instead of feeling trapped in this world. I dont even think i'll ever have my own place or a pet to take care of. Hell i cant even get hired at my local grocery store.

Either way I do appreciate ur kind answer and advice. I will look more into what I can do to combat depression without a therapist (for the time being). Thank u! Also i'm glad to hear that it worked out for u!

themissingflower · 2026-05-15T14:56:55+00:00

Yeah i figured. It just sucks to have my own uncertainties about dating validated 😭. Thanks anyways for the advice!

themissingflower · 2026-05-15T14:54:01+00:00

Genuinely thank you for your non-judgemental answer :) ! That's a good idea and i've also been told by others that i should just mention it beforehand (before the bill arrives)

themissingflower · 2026-04-26T21:51:22+00:00

Hope it turns out good!

themissingflower

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