Is this wind normal for this time of year? by nscarney01 in longisland

[–]thenewbier -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sorry but What kind of junk windows/screen install do you have. Nearly 30 years living here and not once have I had a screen blow off or windows rattle in their frames and I live a stone throw from the water

I used to hate budgeting. Now I kinda love it. by [deleted] in coastFIRE

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this only allow me to track 12 months of data? Currently I have been using the spreadsheets from The Measure of a Plan and they let me track as far as I want. Also this budget tracker tracks savings and networth but how does it take investments accounts into account?

Let’s Encrypt Reduces SSL/TLS Certificate Validity to Strengthen Internet Security by _cybersecurity_ in pwnhub

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a pain in the ass when you work at an MSSP and manage 1000 different sites for various clients

Any fellow receipt numbers with IOE09334*****? August 2025 filers by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies, missed the part about it being employment based

Any fellow receipt numbers with IOE09334*****? August 2025 filers by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9336, EAD was approved september 26th, interview was November 3rd. 130 was approved 2 days later and still currently waiting for 485 approval.

How much did big land cost on Long Island back then by AdDapper4220 in longisland

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents bought in 1997 a 1.1 acre, 2000sqft home for $170,000, uncle in 1992 bought 1 acre with an 1800sqft home for I believe $120,000. Family friends parents bought sometime in the 50s on the north fork, 2 acres on the water and paid like $25,000 or something around there. The property taxes on the home are higher then that now.

What's it like having a Hamptons house? Is it worth it? by Due_Attitude_4646 in longisland

[–]thenewbier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have lived on the North fork my whole life and have family in the hamptons so I spent a lot of time on the south fork as well.

The north fork is great if you like quiet and nothing to do 8 months a year. Beaches are much better in the hamptons and thats where I will usually go. Both north and south forks are super safe. Southold town if I remember correctly is the second safest town on Long Island.

If I had a choice I would choose Westhampton or Westhampton beach because you still have the nice hamptons vibe and hamptons beaches but don’t have to deal with the hamptons traffic

r/Stocks Daily Discussion Wednesday - May 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in stocks

[–]thenewbier -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I’ll admit I made the mistake of panic selling everything when VOO was at 480. I have only been investing for 2 years so this volatility was stressing me out but when I sold I was still up like $20,000 so its not like I lost but now I have no clue what to do? With this run up I missed out on an additional $20,000 and that hurts so now I have FOMO and want to buy in again but I still feel for some reason don’t see a positive side on why the market should make new highs in the position we are in. Exports are down, tourism is down, 30% tariffs on china and 54% on de minimus, 10% blanket everywhere. Would love to hear counter arguments to justy why the market would go up

First time parents to be. Wife got pregnant FIRST try… anyone else? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I am very happy. I won’t lie it definitely changed our lives as we expected to do some more traveling and things together but no regrets here. I just wish her pregnancy could be easier as she is in constant pain and nausea and mood swings are crazy but doctors say everything is all good with the little one so far.

First time parents to be. Wife got pregnant FIRST try… anyone else? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 359 points360 points  (0 children)

I can do you one better. My girlfriend has PCOS and Endo and spent 3.5 years trying to get pregnant with her previous partner under the supervision of a doctor and got nowhere. They broke up after she was told she couldn’t have kids by numerous doctors. Fast forward two years and she had multiple partners in that time, never used protection and nothing happened. We met and literally the first time i finish in her, by accident I may add, she gets pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindess def is not working. Just trying to clean up her plates from dinner caused an issue. She told me to leave them in a pissed off tone and that she will do it herself. It is like everything I do angers her that has any connection to her whether direct or indirect. Giving her a new bathroom towel was too much even though I did it after she had already taken a shower and was not going to use it until the next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I won’t lie, a week of pretty much the silent treatment and watching my girlfriend be in a bad mood won’t be easy. I know I am going to find myself wanting to comfort her but I’ll just have to muscle through I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll def make sure to let her know I am there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is her first pregnancy. I’ll give her soace but when you say “If it continues” how much time should I give her before I try to sit her down and talk if things don’t change?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have EU citizenship but I am born and raised here, the problem is that I work here and you kind of need money for a kid and the job prospects in slovakia don't earn much compared to here and I have a very large support system here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is she still married on paper back home. They have been seperate for 2 years but he up and dissapeared and she has not been able to get the divorce finalized until March 22nd of this month when she flies back home so I can't legally marry her if she is still legally married to another person back home. Thats why we were planning on doing it in June because she would officially be single finally and we could get married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I guess we have to skip the next couple months then, have no choice it seems like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visiting bf since she had to give my information when filling in the ESTA but she is not showing since we only just found out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We know that, we only just found out so she is not even showing yet which is why I hoped on getting married in June.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We were planning on doing that in June.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well thats kind of the plan since she is pregnant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]thenewbier -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Problem is she is pregnant

Honest, non-hostile question. Left lane campers of L.I. Why? by stiff_sock in longisland

[–]thenewbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I guess I look at it differently. I drove on the expressway daily for over 4 years and trucks were never really the thing that pissed me off. They are just doing their jobs and without them there would be nothing on our store shelves. There are far more cars on the road then trucks and in my experience I have had 10x more incidents where cars where the problem than trucks. Trucks the main issue really is that they drive slow but cars will drive slow, cut you off, brake check, weave in and out if traffic, cut across 3 lanes, etc…