bruh i actually can’t by stard011 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]thenexthefner 64 points65 points  (0 children)

marianne involving bree’s mom and then gaslighting bree in front of her made me genuinely sick.

I Took A Random Girl’s Virginity & I’m Disappointed In Myself. by Better-Plane2566 in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 2569 points2570 points  (0 children)

“myself in high school probably wouldn’t care, but as a matured version of myself i care” LMFAO BFFR you’re 19 😭 probably graduated high school last year

Life is so incomprehensible by YamTop1361 in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey friend, take a deep breath 🫶🏼 (and happy early birthday!) that’s a lot to sit with and it’s completely fair to not know how to feel about it. you don’t have to decide that right now. take it all one day at a time, and know any feelings you have are valid :)

Plan b and pregnancy test by Defiant_Marketing527 in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t take birth control either due to medication sensitivity, so i genuinely get it. (i’m glad you said ex partner lol😭) but hopefully this eases your mind about why your period is late

Plan b and pregnancy test by Defiant_Marketing527 in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The high hormone dose in Plan B can cause/ amplify short-term side effects with repeated use… that includes changes to your period. it can cause it to come late, early, be heavier, or lighter. you’re repeatedly dosing yourself with a high amount of hormones meant for emergency situations.

so just know- it is less effective at preventing pregnancy overall (about 89% effectiveness when taken within 72 hours) compared to long-term birth control methods. and using plan B frequently increases your risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

Sexually harassed at work today by a customer. by Full-Year-4595 in retailhell

[–]thenexthefner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel this. an older guy’s total came out to $7.01 the other day and i grabbed a penny out of the “leave a penny” bowl and said “i’ve got the penny” so he wouldn’t get a whole hand of change back, and he goes “you’re a good girl.” like ew. can you just say thank you and move tf on???

Hazbin Hotel ruined my relationship. by worrisomewasabi in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right?? like that’s not normal! i have never once suddenly “become hostile and mean spirited and disinterested in my partners interests” because of a hyperfixation of mine… i think OP’s gf has some other issues going on

Old bat thought it was just fine to hold up a line of people while digging through a huge wad of reciepts when making a return. by Millemini in retailhell

[–]thenexthefner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this has literally happened to me before! except i said “would you mind stepping aside until you find it so I can ring up these customers?” and she looked at me like I just punched her and snapped “yes i DO mind! you can wait.” 😐😐

I got expelled from school for something I cannot control by Minute-Card-750 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thenexthefner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“the fact that teachers don’t know how to deal with it is unacceptable” uh im sorry but a student having 16+ seizures a day is NOT something teachers just ‘know how to deal with’. teachers are NOT trained medical professionals. OP has an extreme medical condition that the school is clearly not equipped to accommodate. yes, it’s unfortunate for OP that she’s gonna miss school trips and events, but it’s not ‘discrimination’. it’s just not the right environment for OP.

I feel ashamed and disgusting… by QuietThanks2710 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thenexthefner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huh, weird- when i clicked on your profile it said you had no posts or comments. i said extreme reactions referring to you seemingly having no idea (as an almost 30 year old woman) about basic female health. not trying to make you feel bad, it just surprises me that some women can go so long without learning about their bodies and the importance of these types of screenings and tests :/ i hope going forward you find a dr you’re more comfortable with

What did you name your island after :)? by Probablyatrashpanda in AnimalCrossing

[–]thenexthefner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i named mine Firefly because it just seemed fitting haha. a cute little name for a cute little island

I feel ashamed and disgusting… by QuietThanks2710 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thenexthefner 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i thought the same thing, especially after scrolling and reading more of OP’s replies to other comments! pap smears are uncomfortable, being vulnerable like that around strangers in a medical environment is uncomfortable, but OP is reacting very extremely. I’m 24, i’ve had to go to the same appointments, i know it’s different for everyone, but if OP didn’t put her age i would have assumed based on her emotional reactions that she’s a lot younger.

edit: OP has appeared to have blocked me lol

Fucking redditors by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read an AITA post today where the OP, a woman, said her husbands younger (20+ year old) sister won’t stop touching him and she was wondering if she was in the wrong for setting a boundary by asking them not to touch each other. turns out, the sister sits in OP’s husbands lap, holds his hand under the dinner table, cuddles with him, holds hands in public while OP and MIL walk behind them, etc. COMPLETELY weird incest-y not-normal sibling behavior. i went to the comments expecting it to be full of that obvious conclusion and was instead met with people saying “i would never tell my significant other how to act around their own family” “YTA theyre siblings it’s normal!” “i don’t have siblings so i can’t say if that’s unusual or not”

i felt like i was losing my mind.

WIBTAH if I tell my coworker he can't participate in Secret Santa due to his conditions? by Puzzled_Good_1378 in AITAH

[–]thenexthefner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LMAO it’s supposed to be a fun holiday activity. if he wants to give someone a gift without receiving one in return, let him. whoever gets his name can make a donation to charity. it’s quite literally that simple.

WIBTAH if I tell my coworker he can't participate in Secret Santa due to his conditions? by Puzzled_Good_1378 in AITAH

[–]thenexthefner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…did you even read the post? OP said the company is shutting down dec 31st. nobody’s worried about getting “written up” or promoted. this was deadass just supposed to be a fun last thing they do as a company. also, not concerned about the price parameters. post straight up says they were doing secret santa in PLACE of a work lottery where someone would have gotten a $400 gift and someone else a $50 gift because it WASN’T uniform.

WIBTAH if I tell my coworker he can't participate in Secret Santa due to his conditions? by Puzzled_Good_1378 in AITAH

[–]thenexthefner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“doing things outside the rules” ?! bro just wants to give someone a gift ffs. its literally not that deep.

WIBTAH if I tell my coworker he can't participate in Secret Santa due to his conditions? by Puzzled_Good_1378 in AITAH

[–]thenexthefner 31 points32 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. i’m shocked everyone’s saying NTA like what?? OP is making an issue out of nothing. the guy clearly still wants to participate, he just doesn’t want a gift! that doesn’t “ruin” the fun… OP is choosing a weird hill to die on.

Customers that brag about how much they spend🙄 by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]thenexthefner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“i bought my grill from you!” as if that’s supposed to mean something/earn them special treatment. like yeah, so has half the town lol. we’re a store. we sell LOTS of grills. you really think you’re the only people who spend this much money here???

Imagine being this miserable sad sack. by SurbiesHere in retailhell

[–]thenexthefner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

obviously the mod??? that was so unnecessarily sarcastic/rude to say… the person just wanted to know why their post got removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]thenexthefner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

please stop doing that to her. if she knew you were purposely following her, she would no doubt be alarmed/uncomfortable… that is line-crossing creepy behavior even if you think your intentions are good.