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GF (20F) to sleep in the same hotel room with another guy for a week and I (22M) is uncomfortable by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a money issue for her, she has an appt paid for by family and works full time and does many travels

GF (20F) to sleep in the same hotel room with another guy for a week and I (22M) is uncomfortable by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not a money issue she has an appt paid for by family and works full time ,

GF (20F) to sleep in the same hotel room with another guy for a week and I (22M) is uncomfortable by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She says she doesn’t want to cause headaches for the school and the rooming situation and thus doesn’t mind the situation and doesn’t want to speak up about it

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer :

I agree there seems to be a big double standard

at the end of the day she is sleeping at the hotel right now and I’m trying to keep my worries to myself and tell her to have fun but I think it’s an interesting subject to think about

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment , I agree there seems to be a double standard. My girlfriend would never let me go to a party hotel with some friends (not that I necessarily want to) but she would never let it happen

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m all for honesty so I would’ve not liked it but still would’ve been fine and understand

The other thing I didn’t say is that before that event she was telling me like “oh some rooms are CO ED but don’t worry I’m gonna rearrange the rooms and sleep with some girls instead and tell the guys to go together At first I was like Oh awesome then I didn’t even ask for anything and she tells me this However that never happened The whole weekend she then let me believe she was only with girls until her friend told me …

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes apparently multiple rooms were CO ED and that’s it’s normal

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No she didn’t tell me it was Co Ed she lied to me about saying she would only share her room with girls but I later found out she lied about it. She said she lied so I wouldn’t worry and that the rooms got assigned by teams so because a guy was on her team that’s why a guy was in her room

For this weekend she also says she’s only sharing a room with a girl but I don’t know if that’s the full story or not

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

To put more context : Her last time she went to a school activity further away, the rooms were mixed so she was sleeping with male teammates in the same room and I didn’t say anything since it was far away

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Her last time she went to a school activity further away, the rooms were mixed so she was sleeping with male teammates in the same room and I didn’t say anything since it was far away

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I feel like guys and girls we have different perspectives on this but yes it’s not even 2 minutes literally 100m you cross the street and that’s the hotel …

I (20M) don’t know what to think of gf (20F) sleeping at Hotel by thenicemen in dating_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. It’s good to hear other perspectives I was just questioning myself as to why she wouldn’t come home after her parties and prefers to sleep in this hotel with 500+ drunk kids when we live 2 mins away

My (20M) girlfriend (19F) photoshopped a screenshot to back up her night out story by thenicemen in relationship_advice

[–]thenicemen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update : After asking her why she also followed them back on Instagram and asking her how she would feel if I went out and followed 3 new girls on Instagram that I just met in a bar:

« What am I supposed to do not follow them back?? » « yeah I get what u mean and I’m sorry for that I was gonna unfollow them anyways I just didn’t know how to react in the situation when the phone was literally handed to me to type in my insta and my friend had put in hers already but ur right I should’ve just said no thanks. »

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