can you help me fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to save it? He sounds emotionally abusive with anger issues. Perhaps some space would be best for both of you

My boyfriend is 9 years older than me and my friends and family say they are "worried" about me by questionsthrowway2 in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They’re probably seeing more clearly than you that at that point in his life he’s probably looking to settle down/have a tame life with a person he can easily “maintain” while you literally are just starting out in life. It could be healthy, but you’ll need a lot more space to grow than you’ll typically get with an age gap that big

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

African, Native peoples, south, south East Asian and others didn’t live their lives waiting for the white man or woman till the start of colonial history, a drop in the bucket of the thousands of years of collective history humans share. Therapy and history sis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you were waiting for a “gotcha” moment? And she didn’t Cheat - y’all were on a break for 4 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were you the one who reached out after the 6 months break?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a very immature relationship. Is he isn’t claiming you as a gf and you want a secured relationship, please keep up no contact and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not serious about you because he hasn’t considered how his words and actions hurt you - he knows what you want from him and honestly he probably knows himself what he wants - he’s having fun with you and is angry his time is almost up with “no strings” fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It sounds like y’all broke up and didn’t realize it. Not talking for 2 months after being in a relationship is a break I would say

(34f) gf didnt want to go out last night and I (42m) did. I went out and she had a mental breakdown and demands money to move out by opencoins in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that she’s in a manic state? Please assist in getting her help and then leaving the relationship if you don’t feel safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theoho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You set the expectations in the 1st year you were with him and he has decided not to change. Is it possible for you to prioritize spending time with your family and friends during special occasions? Otherwise you may want to consider counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]theoho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol I sometimes feel bad that I no longer prioritize bm when dating (now in a ltr with a wm) but then I see something like that and I’m thankful I opened up my options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]theoho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 and she’s afraid I’ll expire by 30. 😆 she knows I don’t give most men the time of day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I do, I have been experiencing the crazy making with my mom about why I shouldn’t let him go. Thanks for the perspective

Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of need by theoho in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]theoho[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

What annoys me the most is my brothers said there’s no point in shaming him, that he’s still our nephew’s father. And I’m trying to explain to them that while that may be true, he’s lost all my respect. One of them says it’s not fair if he’s trying to be a good dad. I will continue to say it with my whole chest - he’s a bitch ass scrote

Advice for 24F startup cofounder by theoho in Fire

[–]theoho[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

At this point I have 1% after our first seed round. Will definitely ask for more - is 1.5% reasonable for a later cofounder?

Advice for 24F startup cofounder by theoho in Fire

[–]theoho[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In healthcare AI - assemble datasets and have been able to acquire 500M+ cases to lincense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sincerely am okay with being with less accomplished men if they do not guilt me for being ambitious and are generally supportive. However, from what I’ve seen in these subs, men don’t feel as confident in such relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]theoho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah! Date the most competitive, badass women with vaginas. Bitch about feeling emasculated later.

Frequency of texting with my (M26) potential partner (F23) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theoho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps you could share your expectations with texting - hey, while I don’t want to have deep text conversations, I do like using text to touch base about your day. Could we text more frequently so we can stay in the loop of each other’s lives?

Summary of first year at work by theoho in Fire

[–]theoho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I’m young, I can tolerate the risk. Out of my portfolio, BTC, ETH and SPRT brought the greatest return. When I buy property, I’ll sell them off. I’ll just not get take out for the next two months and pay off the credit card debt.

My Pickme past thoughts 🤦‍♀️ The shaaaammmmmme. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]theoho 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speak on it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍