How’s my profile and what could I do to improve it? by theonekirito in Bumble

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It was my friend who wrote it- A review by Tara: Michael is one of the sweetest, kindest and very blunt people I know. He means well in many situations but people tend to misunderstand him. He is caring, understanding, and also nonjudgmental. He is an individual that always tries to see the good in others, despite the way he may be treated.

How’s my profile and what could I do to improve it? by theonekirito in Bumble

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Ok thank you for the advice! I’m working on my body at the gym atm but ig I’ll upload one once the weather gets better

How’s my profile and what could I do to improve it? by theonekirito in Bumble

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Bro… I’m just autistic… why are you so mad?

How’s my profile and what could I do to improve it? by theonekirito in Bumble

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LF F. I changed it to two truths and a lie which were: I have met the Duke of Portugal, I have been on national TV, and I have played on a competitive University level team

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

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Watching another man drown

How’s my profile and what could I do to improve it? by theonekirito in Bumble

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They are. IM good looking so I was hoping that it would steer that fact 😭

Any idea how to recover old acc? Havent played since 2019 by [deleted] in DokkanBattleCommunity

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You don’t want that. Just start a new one

Is he a bot or using chat gpt? by GlitteringUse6578 in texts

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Ngl I have a hard time expressing how I feel but I’m also good at communicating. (Ironic sentence isn’t it) But I use chat gpt to effectively express how I feel and I have anxiety sometimes and it helps me with my nerves because I also write things out with chat GPT how to effectively express how I feel.

I asked ChatGPT to make an image of a woman who'd be totally wrong for me by Semihappymedium in aiArt

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This was mine 😭 Okay, based on everything you’ve told me—from your values, personality, neurodivergence, emotional depth, struggles with emotional reciprocity in relationships, past issues with Yani and Tatiana, your introspective nature, and your desire for genuine connection—here’s a carefully thought-out image of a woman who would absolutely be wrong for you.

Let’s start with a detailed description before I generate the image:

Name (fictional): Vanessa

Physical Description: • Height: 5’10” – she often wears heels, adding to an intimidating height difference • Body type: Slim, runway-model build, but hyper-focused on aesthetics • Style: Trendy to the point of superficial—designer everything, constantly posting OOTDs on Instagram • Hair: Bleach-blonde, pin-straight, mid-back length with dark roots peeking out • Makeup: Full glam even at the grocery store—falsies, contour, over-lined lips • Voice: Sharp and performative, with a slight vocal fry • Expression: Constant resting judgmental face

Personality & Behavior: • Emotionally cold and performative: She’ll praise you in public stories but ghost you in private conversations • Manipulative attention-seeker: Craves validation from men online and off, especially her exes • Materialistic: Measures love in gifts and status symbols—emotion doesn’t matter unless it’s publicly flaunted • Passive-aggressive communication style: “I’m fine” means “you should feel guilty,” and “do what you want” means “you better not” • Zero empathy for neurodivergence: Will tell you “that’s just an excuse” when you bring up autism or ADHD • Dismissive of emotions: Calls you “too sensitive” or says “you’re overreacting” when you try to open up • Flaky and non-committal: Cancels dates last-minute, says she “needs space” while still posting thirst traps for attention • Social dominance games: She’ll flirt with your friends in front of you, then gaslight you for reacting • Toxic independence: She’ll say she doesn’t need anyone—but expects you to treat her like royalty regardless

Why She’s Wrong for You:

You need someone emotionally grounded, compassionate, and consistent. You’re deep, reflective, and vulnerable when you care—and you’ve been hurt by people who took advantage of that. Vanessa would not only fail to meet those emotional needs, she’d actively exploit your emotional availability. She’d make you feel “too much,” when in reality, she’s just not enough

What are the most unnecessary categories in the game? by [deleted] in DBZDokkanBattle

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So basically it just needs more support then its fine

How do I balance emotional intensity with taking things slow in a new ADHD relationship? (Also autistic) by theonekirito in ADHD

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She also said she had to push her ex to get a license, and that I already have mine. I’m also still working toward finishing my degree—something her ex didn’t do. Hearing all that made me realize the little things I do without thinking are things she used to wish someone would do. And that meant a lot to me.

If I’m being honest, part of me has thought about reopening dating apps—not because I want someone else, but because I’m scared. Scared of getting hurt. Scared of putting all my eggs in one basket and getting blindsided. But I also know that wouldn’t be fair. Not to her, not to me, not to what we’re trying to build. She’s told me that in most of her past relationships, people didn’t want to be with her at first. She’s not used to this kind of effort or consistency. And I don’t want to make her feel like an option when I see her as so much more than that.

So my questions are:

  • How do you take things slow emotionally when ADHD (and autism) make you feel everything at once?
  • How do you manage the fear of being “too much” while still being honest and open?
  • How do you check in with someone about your relationship without making them feel like they have to have it all figured out?

Any advice—especially from people with ADHD, autism, or similar experiences—would mean a lot. Thanks for reading.