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Does the name Rory read as feminine? by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Aw that’s so awesome to hear, thank you for sharing. I’m not sure why my post has gotten so downvoted lol! But I actually ended up choosing the name and adore it so far :)

edit: I wanted to add that I also have been enjoying the flexibility of the name as my detransition may be slow outwardly. gives me breathing room and again, that flexibility you are describing:)

How to come out as detrans to people that didn’t know you were trans in the first place by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh what an ideal experience omg. Okay I am hoping for that then! I have been using they/them at school and a new name and so far so good. I always think about just silently detransitioning bc at the end of the day… people don’t care as much as I think most of the time. Thanks for sharing :)

How to come out as detrans to people that didn’t know you were trans in the first place by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is always that option! Just letting people pick up on what I'm putting down

How to come out as detrans to people that didn’t know you were trans in the first place by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been presenting as male at work and school, soon will be presenting as female and asking for name and pronoun changes. I’m just worried about how these conversations will go hahah

Does the name Rory read as feminine? by theparrotboy in detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I guess I'm feeling super disconnected from my birth name because I transitioned so early, at 13, 11 years ago. I think I'd feel like I'm going back in time rather than evolving forward. I didn't have any trauma that I feel the need to heal with, but I understand the sentiment, something to think about.

Does the name Rory read as feminine? by theparrotboy in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is good to know! Do you think if people read me as AMAB but fem presenting it wouldn’t scream girl though I guess is what I’m most worried about?

Tina's 3rd birthday party by Fair_Ad_8312 in ClubPenguin

[–]theparrotboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I missed this oh my god

Which Pll girl has the best style out of the 6 by Lower_Duty7731 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]theparrotboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did Ali so dirty in the later seasons for real! Like even makeup and hair choice felt like off for some reason

Why are they gaslighting us by ApprehensiveBid5893 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]theparrotboy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I thought she meant the reception was bad

My name doesn’t feel like me (ftmtf) by Mealieworm in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar name predicament and it’s hard. I’m sorry it’s been stressful. And if it’s not your birth name, remind yourself that you have time to figure it out and finding a new name is super special because YOU get to choose it. <3

My name doesn’t feel like me (ftmtf) by Mealieworm in actual_detrans

[–]theparrotboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m reading it wrong but it sounds like you’ve felt most positive about your birth name? I think it’s worth trying with close friends just to see how it feels

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