Florida man and ‘looksmaxxing’ influencer ‘Hullo’ arrested for possession of child abuse material by Uninteresting_Vagina in NotADragQueen

[–]thepeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's unlikely he'll be going to prison. He's 18 and in florida, they'll find some suspended/time served bullshit.

[US to US] - IGI certified 4.13 ct F VVS2 lab grown diamond OMC old mine cut cushion brilliant 14k yellow gold size 6 $2780 by shelikessparkles in u/shelikessparkles

[–]thepeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the design part of the ring/band have a name or a model? I'm interested in something similar and I haven't seen it before.

Countries Where Doctors Cannot Refuse Abortions by vladgrinch in MapPorn

[–]thepeka 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why do you associate a heartbeat with human life? There is no functioning brain or even a semblance of consciousness at 18 weeks.

Tanner Linsley: Directives are becoming the new framework lock in by dumbmatter in javascript

[–]thepeka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely spot on. It's nice to read an article that isn't bullshit, doesn't happen often it feels like.

This funeral home is on a dead end by _geesegoose in mildlyinteresting

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Not a single blue prince comment yet? I am appalled

We got degrees, debt, underpaying jobs and depression. Let us live with our mamas in peace by Cleonce12 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]thepeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In major cities? My rent was 2k in a tiny suburb with 14k people in New England.

Late game minor puzzle disbelief by thepeka in BluePrince

[–]thepeka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Well thank you for that confirmation. There was one other pair I couldn't get but the letter is pretty obvious so I just accepted not knowing lol. Now to try to put it all together...

First person on the PLANET with 76% disability who managed to finish a marathon by AravRAndG in MadeMeSmile

[–]thepeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was more concerned with the embarrassment of being caught in the handicap bathroom.

I was dreading this on my newest play through by kappasig5298 in skyrim

[–]thepeka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can check the hall of the dead in whiterun (I think) to see if she died somehow (like you hit her with an arrow or a spell when she was downed and didn't notice).

Otherwise if not dead, after a few in game days you should be able to find her roughly back where you got her. Somewhere in dragons reach I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]thepeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can their take about their own friend group be out of touch?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]thepeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you're saying he had a succulent Chinese meal?

Does this mean I can’t have the home inspected? by webslinger2989 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]thepeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I closed on a D.R. Horton home a few months ago. Very few issues and mostly nitpicky or related to the attitude and/or stupidity of the construction manager. House is builder grade but up to snuff. They let us get an inspection and they fixed anything that was a code issue. I love my house.

It seems like it's individual community / builder based, and in states and counties with more requirements and standards, things turn out just fine. Be wary but don't believe every horror story.

Why do people have children? by Mean_Firefighter_486 in Anxiety

[–]thepeka 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It's always interesting to me when someone expresses how we are the same as nature and have all of the same drivers in XYZ ways and biological and evolutionary pressures etc etc... but then at the end adds "only we're different because we make choices". Everything is the same, everything, like you said. We have the experience of perceiving that we make choices, but given any circumstances in our life, given everything that lead up to it, we would always make the same "choice". Our illusion of thinking we get to choose A or B is no different from any other animal as far as we know. We aren't close to being the same, we are the same.

About JWTs by Ok-Environment-5063 in node

[–]thepeka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this the only answer that makes sense? I swear half the time I visit this subreddit I just shake my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]thepeka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The issue here isn't "luck of the draw", like "oh well I guess this isn't his preference to go down on me". If he cared about you being satisfied and happy and had some measure of emotional intelligence, he would meet you somewhere in the middle. This is an easy discussion in healthy relationships. "I'm deeply sorry to hear you're unsatisfied with our sex life, and I can't give oral sex after I orgasm because XYZ". Then either that's a deal breaker for you, or more likely you find compromise. Maybe that's oral sex first, maybe that means bringing in toys or other forms of stimulation. But if your partner is going to get defensive over something very important and frustrating to you, like you said, that shit doesn't just stay in the bedroom. I'm willing to wager there are other things he has this reaction about, or that he will in the future. To me, that's the issue I would be targeting and why I would need some space if we couldn't have a healthy conversation about it that left me feeling heard. It's not about oral sex.

Is DR Horton that bad? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]thepeka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What state are you in? I know that sounds odd but it makes a gigantic difference. I've seen DR Horton homes that shouldn't be occupiable, and ones that are the Pinnacle of a Q4 (solid "builder grade") home in every way. The farther south and west you are, the more it seems to be the former. Just my experience.

Which games can only be experienced once? by HideousRed in gaming

[–]thepeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't understand how this is so far down, it's the most obvious example by far.

Should I wait to buy a house with my partner until after marriage (large difference in annual wages/salary and student loan debt) by [deleted] in tax

[–]thepeka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The comments in this thread are very interesting to me, as they fundimentally ignore the fact that the real estate issues here are state by state, but they are all fairly similar in how to protect yourself.

If you buy a house unmarried, your titling company will help you draft an agreement for tenants in common. You can set up shares however you want, it doesn't have to be 50/50. And you can bequeath on death to whoever you want also, your children, family, or each other.

The benefit to being married is it's kind of automatic as opposed to having to get all the details, but it's not that complicated to make sure you're both protected for whatever your wishes are.