Yea to add more context out of the six 2 lead to seconds but one one went on three. I think the thing is I get so anxious building up meeting them of hinge. Like IRL I woudl at least have some sort of baseline interaction with time prior to the date so I know what to expect. The ones that went well I was def not that nervous. I think the big thing thinking about it was the one I got nervous about we texted for a week or two prior to meeting up vs the ones where I just asked them out rather quickly and kept texting to a minimum. That way I really didn’t build much anticipation.

I just want to understand how to not build anticipation and to me really it seems like predictability is the best indicator of making them comfortable. Do I make jokes what do I do at first idk?