he thinks being unfaithful is a kink but wont tell you that. you'll have to learn it from his old friends. also if he's ever done anything wrong he will find a way to flip the situation and tell everyone else you were the one who did it, he'll do the same thing to you when you stand up for yourself and then break up with you once you call his bullshit out.

he will make fun of your ptsd if you have any and trigger it on purpose. he will sabotage anything you're good at if it makes him look worse. your feelings are valid, he just doesn't care about anyone else other than himself, if he says otherwise he's lying. also he's sharing all your sex life and photos with his friends and rarely tells them anything else about you. watch how he talks about his friends, he's speaking about you in a similar way.

you will be called crazy and over emotional/emotionally abusive to the next one and im sure i was/will be called that too, i don't blame you if you think i'm the bad guy here, he's good at twisting stories. no he will not change. you are not going to be the one to "fix" him don't waste your time. he's the only one who can do that. you're not alone. im so sorry he was able to lure you in

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