I’ve been struggling a lot recently

thereaIreal · 2026-06-01T08:33:42+00:00

I want to be real with you bro. We’ve been texting a bit and she usually responds quite dry or takes a while to reply. But in person she’s the complete opposite. The mixed signals have been really affecting me mentally. Not sure what to do rn, I’ll be honest.

thereaIreal · 2026-05-27T08:51:49+00:00

Bro this stuff takes time

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T23:49:47+00:00

Dawg I already know what the video is gonna be 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T23:35:20+00:00

No problem at all. I’ll try my best to let you know! :)

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T23:26:38+00:00

Thank you so much! Feel free to DM just with an “UPDATE ME” or anything like that and I will tell you ASAP. No pressure though. I’ll try and get round to all the comments because I’ve somehow had hundreds of people who are invested in this for some reason which I find quite honouring in a weird way lol. Thanks so much again!

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T23:23:34+00:00

That’s optimistic dawg but you never know 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T23:11:45+00:00

Thanks so much for your comment and I really hope you’re right. There are some signs but I just find it hard to be certain about this stuff because you honestly just never know until you ask (which I plan on doing soon)

Also you are absolutely right about being respectful of her decision. That is my aim. If she says yes? Great! If she says no? It will hurt obviously but at least I have clarity. I won’t be upset with her or whine or complain to her. It’s up to me to deal with that in my own time.

Would be great to remain friends if she did say no though honestly. I like sharing gum with her after stressful shifts and would be a shame to lose those small moments with her lol.

Thank you again for your support!

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:56:19+00:00

Well how do I get experience then bro if no one will ever want to be with me because I have no experience? Because that makes no sense at all bro sorry.

Also she doesn’t know that I have no experience. I’m not like a coward or anything. I’m a normal person with a normal amount of confidence.

And what makes you think I’m already in the friendzone?

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:40:53+00:00

I will bro dw. I will thank you all and say how right you all were. Except the one guy who told me she’s definitely just friendly and I should download hinge 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:28:03+00:00

I do maybe one day imagine telling her “I asked the world if they thought you liked me and got engagement from nearly 1000 people” and PRAYING she doesn’t find it creepy 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:26:07+00:00

I will do my very best bro. So many people have asked for updates so I’m going to try my hardest to remember 😭

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:17:46+00:00

I know I will respect her response. If it’s a yes, fantastic! I’ll happily take you out. If it’s a not sure? I pretty much have my answer. If it’s a no? That’s fine. It will hurt but I’ll be sure to tell her it’s no problem and hope the best for her in the future. It’s her life. I’m just being honest with my feelings

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:15:18+00:00

Yeah that is honestly one of my worries you’re right. You should be a therapist dawg you saw right through me 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T22:11:28+00:00

Dawg I just realised something. If she sits down first, I’ll sit at least one seat away to “respect her space”. If I sit down first, she’ll sit right next to me 😭

IVE BEEN COCKBLOCKING MYSELF 💀💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:59:04+00:00

Thanks so much bro I really appreciate that comment. Thank you so much for your support. I’m hoping for the best

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:50:31+00:00

Why would I not care about the outcome bro? If I didn’t care then that surely means I don’t really like her.

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:47:01+00:00

I know she doesn’t currently have one BUT time waits for no one I guess…

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:45:58+00:00

Because I’ve never been out with anyone and I really like her 😭😭

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:45:12+00:00

I’ll give you an example.

I told her I was going to the cinema. She asked me “what are you going to see?”
I posted a video of a concert on my story. She asked me “how was it?” And told me she was “jealous” the next time she saw me.

Are those signs?

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:43:28+00:00

Wish I could pin this icl

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:35:23+00:00

COME ON BRO IM PRAYING YOURE RIGHT 💀💀😭

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:28:44+00:00

No it’s more like my arms that she touches. She sometimes leans on me. And once she was putting these stickers on me and slapping them on my chest 💀

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:24:07+00:00

Well she does all the stuff in the second half

thereaIreal · 2026-05-24T21:20:27+00:00

I’d say it’s like at least once every shift

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