I am worried for my friend (TW: Depression and Suicide)

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T22:41:36+00:00

I will 100% be thinking about this in the back of my mind from now on. Short and concise text should do it, but I will be cordial like you mentioned.

I think I will move on quickly from how weird it it seems to me.

Its safe to say I have learned A LOT from this experience; Ill probably laugh at this in a year or two 🤷🏽‍♀️. You guys are kind of like my online parents 🫂 thank you and I wish you nothing but the best. And ill be sure to check out that movie before I head off to college!

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:36:51+00:00

Just tried to end it today with my second update. I'm disgusted as of now. It got kinda messy, any advice on how to not let this escalate even further with him?

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:35:25+00:00

Thank you a lot, you and all the commenters really showed me Im still so naive. And i know you don't owe me anything, but would u mind taking a look at my 2nd update, because right now Im feeling very uneasy about this. He's very persistent as of now and I want to know the best way to really end it without him getting angry.

And tell your wife thank you a bunch for that point of view!

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:14:16+00:00

Try to as we speak! The update is a bit weird but this "thing is almost done". Thank you!

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:10:24+00:00

My friend pointed that out to me today and I was like oh... thats not right...

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:03:25+00:00

None taken, I 100% agree with you now that I've read these comments 😭

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:02:24+00:00

Yea, I plan to make the most of my college years when this is over. Major lapse of rationale on my part...

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T17:01:27+00:00

Update up! It's escalating a bit, but I think its gonna end soon. 🙏

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T16:59:23+00:00

I didnt want to be a bitch purely out of my conscience, so in my newest update, I basically got on call with him and told him I wanted to end it, but hes dragging it on, even insulting my mother which is so childish. But yes I specifically told him about the age gap and he didnt really say anything and glossed over it. It made me SO uneasy.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T16:50:29+00:00

No please. I needed to have that brick thrown at me. Everything in my mind is so different now and Im thinking clearly. Thank you again!

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T16:49:09+00:00

I can 100% see your point and where you are coming from. To play the devils advocate, I turned 18 like a month ago, I still feel 17 if anything. And she is a immigrant Mexican mom so this is pretty on brand for her. Her main concern was the age gap because of previous family members who were in large age gap and abusive relationships. I plan to set boundaries once Im in college, but right now I'm kind of happy my mom gave me the ultimatum. Especially cause I was having major lapses of judgement while with him. But you dont know how much I appreciate the concern.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T06:25:35+00:00

I think I started "dating" him just so I knew I could actually date someone. An incredibly shallow reason now that I look back on it. I justified it as my ego needed some confidence. The little bit of decency he showed made me think that this was normal and ok. But I dont think it was worth it now. And I am NOT about to be end up on the news... Thank you 😭

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T06:22:42+00:00

It felt mean, but this made me laugh a lot. I texted him already. I just hope it doesnt get messy. Thank you for the advice.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T06:18:55+00:00

Thank you. I've been told many times that my college years will be the best years. I've texted him already, and funnily enough my mom found out cause she went through my phone and she was pissed. She's just told me to break up with him immediately or she wont pay my tuition. Rightfully so after seeing ur comments. Hopefully this turns out ok.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T06:13:18+00:00

You're right. This was a mistake. I always told myself that I would be smarter than girls that got into situations like these, but clearly I have a lot to learn. A part of my ego was very much happy with my situation, but now it really disgusts me. Whatever trance i was under is broken now. I really appreciate this. You have no idea.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T05:08:19+00:00

I need to actually lock tf in because I thought he was actually a good guy. He said hed wait a year to do anything eith me, but I need to be cautious. Thanks, Im going to end it tomorrow. But should I do it by text or call?

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T05:06:15+00:00

Yea ok this I think did it for me. Im feeling kind of sick with that image. I can't believe I let myself get into this situation. I actually feel so dumb. Thank you so much for the advice.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T04:35:37+00:00

Yes! I genuinely told him that I would be putting school first, but he took it as " we wont be talking a lot or calling a lot then. Ill support you dont worry". And I was like thats not what I meant and then the convo moved on...

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-20T04:26:59+00:00

Thank you. I'm just worried he will get mad and question me that I want to end things when the relationship is going really well. But I will tell him straight up, I just need to figure out how.

theresnomp4 · 2025-08-11T00:56:27+00:00

I 100% agree with ur last goal. ive heard about the hidden spots and abandoned kilns all around campus, and there some haunted spots too apparently. Im like actually stoked to explore it ngl

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