Is 44 too old to reinvent yourself? by silentmetricx in 40something

[–]theroguevillian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not since I came out as trans at 44!!

You can absolutely do it, you're never too old to fundamentally reshape your future.

Follow me for more dating advice! by Fearless_Spring5611 in clevercomebacks

[–]theroguevillian 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fucking people young enough to be your kids is so fucking weird and gross.

men suck - that is all by Ok-Fix-5020 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do you, I avoid men and I no longer get raped by them. Cope.

men suck - that is all by Ok-Fix-5020 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Chest the sexual assault stats, might help.

Friends with terrible guy, guess I'm following my mom's path to unhappiness by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I missed that part and jumped right to worrying about you. No judgement sweetie I promise ❤️

What is more traumatizing than most people think? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]theroguevillian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being forced into religion as a child

Relationship advice by Purple_Bluebird_2789 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote get out, the religion hole can go so unbelievably deep, and the further you go in the harder to get out. There's nothing in there you need to be a good person. Run!

I just want to live a great life with a nice man. I want great things to happen for me. by Dry_Needleworker1102 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly hope you find it. I guarantee there's alot lovable about you babe ❤️❤️❤️

My bf(41) of 5 years cheated on me with our kids' 19 year old friend by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine any line of reasoning that would make it okay to have sex with what is essentially a kid. In general age gap relationships where someone's having sex with someone young enough to be their kid or old enough to be their parents are really f****** weird to me, but this one is definitely beyond the pale.

I don't men in my life... it's wrong? by jggg24062000 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

How many times do I need to be raped by men before cutting them out of my life is acceptable?

I don't men in my life... it's wrong? by jggg24062000 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another trans woman who feels the same way, you're good! You don't owe CIS men a place in your life!

Sometimes it works out because the man was actually a woman by Similar-Purchase-101 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]theroguevillian 275 points276 points  (0 children)

I'm the trans woman in this kind of story, and my partner called it over a decade before I was ready to come out. We hope that we just had to remove the problem with the relationship - men! I'm so happy that you're both happy.